Being generous and doing things for others is a fine trait, Moonchild, and
you have it. But being generous and doing things for others out of a sense
of guilt - especially misplaced guilt - is not the way to live your life.
You may be going above and beyond for someone because they have made you
feel bad or responsible for something that occurred, but you have no blame
here. Don't be manipulated into doing something for the wrong reasons. Let
the other party step up and take responsibility.
慷慨大方和為他人付出是你的優點，月之子，而你的確擁有這個優點，但是因為愧疚
感而為他人付出—尤其是錯誤的愧疚感—並不是生活的一種方式。你可能正在為了某
人忙進忙出，希望能符合他的期望，因為他讓你覺得自己做錯了什麼或是有責任處理
某件事，但是其實你並沒有責任，不要被他操控而站在錯的出發點做事，讓其他人站
出來接手吧。
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相遇要在對的時間，重逢也是。
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you have it. But being generous and doing things for others out of a sense
of guilt - especially misplaced guilt - is not the way to live your life.
You may be going above and beyond for someone because they have made you
feel bad or responsible for something that occurred, but you have no blame
here. Don't be manipulated into doing something for the wrong reasons. Let
the other party step up and take responsibility.
慷慨大方和為他人付出是你的優點，月之子，而你的確擁有這個優點，但是因為愧疚
感而為他人付出—尤其是錯誤的愧疚感—並不是生活的一種方式。你可能正在為了某
人忙進忙出，希望能符合他的期望，因為他讓你覺得自己做錯了什麼或是有責任處理
某件事，但是其實你並沒有責任，不要被他操控而站在錯的出發點做事，讓其他人站
出來接手吧。
--
相遇要在對的時間，重逢也是。
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