如果你想得到某人的看法 --- 他真誠的看法，
那就別在提問時，參雜進預想的答案。
也許你現在正在尋找一位導師或典範，
你希望這個人來贊同或欣賞你的某方面。
因為你對這人抱持著高度重視，
記得，誠實的答案會對你有好處。
別只護著自己的期望，
否則你將無法學習到任何事。
開放地去接受那些妳被告知的事，
讓它們得到有價值的利用。
If you want someone's opinion - their honest opinion - then don't ask a
question with a preconceived answer. You may be looking up to someone now as
a mentor or role model. You would like this person to approve or appreciate
something about you. Since you hold this individual in high regard, remember
that an honest answer will be good for you. Don't nurse your own expectations
or you might not learn anything. Be open to what is said to you, and use it
for all it is worth.
Copyright c Daily Horoscope.
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那就別在提問時，參雜進預想的答案。
也許你現在正在尋找一位導師或典範，
你希望這個人來贊同或欣賞你的某方面。
因為你對這人抱持著高度重視，
記得，誠實的答案會對你有好處。
別只護著自己的期望，
否則你將無法學習到任何事。
開放地去接受那些妳被告知的事，
讓它們得到有價值的利用。
If you want someone's opinion - their honest opinion - then don't ask a
question with a preconceived answer. You may be looking up to someone now as
a mentor or role model. You would like this person to approve or appreciate
something about you. Since you hold this individual in high regard, remember
that an honest answer will be good for you. Don't nurse your own expectations
or you might not learn anything. Be open to what is said to you, and use it
for all it is worth.
Copyright c Daily Horoscope.
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