10/19 The Daily Horoscope - 牡羊

Aries horoscope for Oct, 19, 2014

There has always been something missing from the way you communicate with
someone in your life. You and this individual talk enough, but you don't
always understand each other. Sometimes you interpret what the other says
incorrectly, or you have expectations of each other that are based on mixed
messages or misunderstandings. You can fix this, though, Aries. The key to
better communication is very simple. You need to listen to each other - hear
what is actually being said, rather than what you want to hear.


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當你跟身邊的某個人溝通的時候，
總是會覺得好像中間少了些什麼。
你跟這個人常常聊天，
但是好像並不是那麼了解對方。
有時候可能對方說的跟你所理解的有出入，
也可能你們對彼此的認識，
是建立在雜亂無章的訊息、甚至是誤解上面。

你可以改變這樣的情況的，羊羊。
邁向良好溝通的關鍵十分簡單，
你們要學習好好的彼此傾聽，
聽到對方真正想表達的東西，
而不是自己想聽到的。


譯註：

自己動不動就跟家裡的金牛媽媽吵架，
她最常說的一句話就是：
鼻要跟你說了，
你每次都黑白聽。

檢討！


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Strength doens't come from what you CAN do.
It comes from OVERCOMING the things you ONCE thought you COULDN't.


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