If you express to someone that you are unhappy with a situation that is now
unfolding in your life, Cancer, you may cause that person to back away and not
deal with the issue. Even though you are unhappy, saying so directly will only
cause the other party to feel threatened, intimidated, and incapable of fulfilling
your ideals. But if you express that you have ideas for change that could make
everything work for you, you will find that the other party feels inspired rather
than intimidated. It's all in how you approach it and phrase it.
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如果你跟某人表達對當前的發展狀況感到不滿時，巨蟹，你可能會導致這號人物撤退並
不去處理當前的問題。儘管你不開心，但直白的陳述將只會導致對方感到威脅，恐嚇，
並無法實現你的想法。不過，你若轉個腦筋去表達想法，將會使所有事情運作的順利，
你會發現對方的感受是覺得受到鼓勵而不是威脅。這完全取決於你表達的方式及措辭。
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渣翻求指點。
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unfolding in your life, Cancer, you may cause that person to back away and not
deal with the issue. Even though you are unhappy, saying so directly will only
cause the other party to feel threatened, intimidated, and incapable of fulfilling
your ideals. But if you express that you have ideas for change that could make
everything work for you, you will find that the other party feels inspired rather
than intimidated. It's all in how you approach it and phrase it.
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如果你跟某人表達對當前的發展狀況感到不滿時，巨蟹，你可能會導致這號人物撤退並
不去處理當前的問題。儘管你不開心，但直白的陳述將只會導致對方感到威脅，恐嚇，
並無法實現你的想法。不過，你若轉個腦筋去表達想法，將會使所有事情運作的順利，
你會發現對方的感受是覺得受到鼓勵而不是威脅。這完全取決於你表達的方式及措辭。
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渣翻求指點。
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