獅子們，你試圖不讓自己溺斃在責任的大海裡，但只能踩著水載浮載沉。你太有責任感了，以至於一看到你關心的人需要幫助，就一肩扛起那些你不需要負的責任。這個傾向有時會讓你覺得自己要被淹沒了。若感到厭煩了，回頭是岸。那些人完全有能力負上至少一些責任。找他們回來處理吧。
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You may feel that you are only treading water now as you try to keep from drowning in a sea of obligations, Leo. You are so responsible that you often take on responsibilities that you really don't have to when you see that someone you care about has the need for help.
But this penchant sometimes leaves you feeling like you are overwhelmed and going under. If you are feeling exasperated, head for shore. There are at least a few obligations that other people are perfectly capable of taking care of. Call them out on that.
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釐清自己的責任與他人的責任。
不需要像幫小孩寫暑假作業的父母一樣。
或許他們有能力自己執行，只是需要你的一些提點。
分清責任歸屬，劃好要幫到什麼程度的底線。
學會放手，也是讓自己得以喘口氣的第一步:3
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