The needs of another person have taken over and eclipsed your own needs.
You have sacrificed your own time and energy - and perhaps your own
happiness - to do something or to work on behalf of someone else.
It may have started as an isolated incident; the answer to a need.
But it evolved into a habit, and now it has become more of an obligation.
But it doesn't have to be that way. It can change - and it should change.
Slowly ease yourself out of it, Aries. That doesn't mean you have to
abandon the relationship.
It just means that you have to take your own space back.
你自己的需求，已經因為你太過於注重對某人的需求而侵蝕掉了，
你已經犧牲了你的時間和精力，也許還有些你自己的快樂，
你可以去幫助其他人，而不是去做一些專屬於他/她的事情，，
也許這一切都開始於一個偶發事件，但是這需求，已經變成了一種習慣，
到現在甚至變成一種義務，其實你可以不必這麼做，這是可以改變的，
而且也應該被改變，羊兒們～試著從中慢下腳步，
但不是要你拋棄整段關係，這只代表你必須找屬於自己的時間
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