有些時候，你會著迷於看似受傷而需要幫助的人們。
你被需要朋友或需要照護的人們所吸引，因為你知道自己能讓他們快樂些。
你沒注意到的是，這樣的關係通常都是不平衡的，且你是付出較多的那端。
樂於付出的人們往往會吸引那些只懂奪取的人。
有時候他們是故意的，但有時則不是。
你現在可能正在面對一個只懂奪取的人，但這個人也有潛力成為一個給予者。
培養這段關係沒什麼問題，只要你想清楚自己的底線在哪裡。
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Sometimes, Taurus, you are drawn to people who need to be "fixed" because
they seem broken. You gravitate to people who are in need of a friend or a
nurturing presence because you know you can make those people feel better.
What you don't recognize, though, is that in relationships of this kind you
have often gotten the short end of the stick. Givers tend to draw takers.
Sometimes it's intentional, and sometimes it isn't. You may be dealing with a
taker now, but this is someone who has the potential to be a giver too. It's
okay to nurture this relationship, as long as you think ahead about where to
draw the line.
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颱風天大家請小心，出入平安。
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你被需要朋友或需要照護的人們所吸引，因為你知道自己能讓他們快樂些。
你沒注意到的是，這樣的關係通常都是不平衡的，且你是付出較多的那端。
樂於付出的人們往往會吸引那些只懂奪取的人。
有時候他們是故意的，但有時則不是。
你現在可能正在面對一個只懂奪取的人，但這個人也有潛力成為一個給予者。
培養這段關係沒什麼問題，只要你想清楚自己的底線在哪裡。
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Sometimes, Taurus, you are drawn to people who need to be "fixed" because
they seem broken. You gravitate to people who are in need of a friend or a
nurturing presence because you know you can make those people feel better.
What you don't recognize, though, is that in relationships of this kind you
have often gotten the short end of the stick. Givers tend to draw takers.
Sometimes it's intentional, and sometimes it isn't. You may be dealing with a
taker now, but this is someone who has the potential to be a giver too. It's
okay to nurture this relationship, as long as you think ahead about where to
draw the line.
=============================================================================
颱風天大家請小心，出入平安。
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