Daily Horoscope 11/24 - 獅子
By Oliver
at 2016-11-23T20:32
at 2016-11-23T20:32
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You have had the very same conversation with someone more than a few times.
You want something to change, and this person wants to avoid making a change.
This may be obvious, Leo, but yet you keep going back to that seemingly
pointless conversation. Will you keep it up? Will you try again? You probably
will because you may be surmising that the third time - or the thirtieth time
- will be the charm. Don't count on it. Adjust where you have to, or seek out
a compromise. Whatever you do, stop driving yourself crazy.
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你們和某個人已經有很多次相類似的對話。你們想要某些事情改變,而這個人想要避免改
變。這也許很顯而易見,獅子們,但你們還是選擇要回到這個似乎是不得要領的對話。你
們是否會繼續下去呢?你們會再次嘗試嗎?你們可能會繼續是因為猜想不管第三次─還是
第三十次─會能夠引起注意。不要仰賴它。調整自己所要去的方向,或是尋求妥協吧。不
論你們怎麼做,停止讓自己繼續抓狂吧。
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今日運勢摘要:
請想清楚不斷要求對話的目的,究竟真的是為了雙方好,
還是只是為了要讓自己的心裡好過一點。
※英語小辭典:
1. keep up:繼續
2. surmise:(v.)猜測;(n.)沒有證據就做出的判斷
3. count on:依賴、仰賴;相信、預測
很多人在對話的時候,無意識間會抱持著一種「我就不相信沒辦法改變你」、
或「這是為了你好」的心態。
在這樣的想法下,常常會讓對話越來越困難。
確實,人與人相處的過程中,會出現想要改變對方的想法,
是因為對方其實很好,但就是某些地方不符合自己的期待,
如果對方可以把這個美中不足的地方改變,就會更好了。
不過,這個「更好」,是否建立在對方也認同的狀態下呢?
如果我們自己在某些地方都不想要因為要滿足別人的期待而改變,
那麼我們又何須讓自己去成為那個、不斷逼迫別人做不想要的改變的人呢?: )
在期待能用不斷進逼的方式撼動對方信念之前,
先試著釐清自己為什麼想要對方改變吧:)
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