當人們在想關於「找到生命裡的真愛」時，有些人會期待一個一眼認出的瞬間——
他們深深望進對方的眼裡，並且知道「就是他了」。
你可能希望會有一個像這樣的時刻，你有選擇，而你準備這麼做，無關是否浪漫。
但不是所有的愛都是一見鍾情，也不是每一個好的選擇都可以立即地顯而易見。
給自己一些時間觀察，吸收和思考你想要什麼，而你手中又握有什麼選項。
你將會有這麼一個認定的時刻，但它也將伴隨著時間和經驗而來；而不是即刻的滿足喜悅
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When people think about finding the love of their life, some will expect a mom
ent of instant recognition, where they will look into their lover's eyes and k
now "this is the one."
You may be hoping for a moment like that with a choice you are about to make,
whether it involves romance or not.
But not all love is at first sight, and not every good choice is immediately o
bvious.
Give yourself some time to observe, to absorb, and to think about what you wan
t and what your options offer you.
You should have that moment of recognition, but it will come with time and exp
erience; not with a sense of instant gratification.
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不要著急，等時機成熟，你終會知道他是誰。
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