對這篇有點小感觸,所以潤飾了一下:)
通常,雖然有所懷疑但姑且相信對方是件好事
畢竟我們不可能總是知道別人正經歷什麼
或者為什麼他們做一些你無法贊同的事
但,如果你太常對特定某人這麼做,這對你沒有好處。
如果有人一直表現得不好,牛牛你需要後退一步,更客觀地看看。
可能你需要一個早該進行的溝通。
※ 引述《vivicoo2002 (乎兮)》之銘言:
: 通常來說去開導他人是件好事。
: 畢竟,你不可能總是知道他人在想什麼,或是為何他們要做難認同的事。
: 但如果你太常如此,尤其是常常對某個人這樣,那並不討喜。
: 金牛,如果某人持續不改善不良行為,你需要退後一步並拿出更客觀的眼光。
: 你需要履行遲來的溝通
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: JUN 23 2017
: It is usually a good thing to give someone the benefit of the doubt.
: After all, it isn't always possible to know what someone else is going
: through, or why they do something you don't approve of or agree with.
: But when you do this too often - as you have for one particular person -
: you aren't doing anyone any favors. If someone is consistently behaving
: badly, Taurus, you need to step back and take a more objective look.
: It could be that you need to have a long-overdue conversation.
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通常,雖然有所懷疑但姑且相信對方是件好事
畢竟我們不可能總是知道別人正經歷什麼
或者為什麼他們做一些你無法贊同的事
但,如果你太常對特定某人這麼做,這對你沒有好處。
如果有人一直表現得不好,牛牛你需要後退一步,更客觀地看看。
可能你需要一個早該進行的溝通。
※ 引述《vivicoo2002 (乎兮)》之銘言:
: 通常來說去開導他人是件好事。
: 畢竟,你不可能總是知道他人在想什麼,或是為何他們要做難認同的事。
: 但如果你太常如此,尤其是常常對某個人這樣,那並不討喜。
: 金牛,如果某人持續不改善不良行為,你需要退後一步並拿出更客觀的眼光。
: 你需要履行遲來的溝通
: --------------------------------------------------------------------
: JUN 23 2017
: It is usually a good thing to give someone the benefit of the doubt.
: After all, it isn't always possible to know what someone else is going
: through, or why they do something you don't approve of or agree with.
: But when you do this too often - as you have for one particular person -
: you aren't doing anyone any favors. If someone is consistently behaving
: badly, Taurus, you need to step back and take a more objective look.
: It could be that you need to have a long-overdue conversation.
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