某個對你而言很重要的人正在處理一件事情，你想幫忙但卻只看到問題的冰山一角而已。
縱使對方並沒有懇求或要求你出手相助，或是提供其他意見，呣呣~
若你能從不同的視域去看待這個問題，那麼這會讓你對她現在的感覺更有共鳴，讓你能夠
深入了解其重要性。
即便你認為自己已經看清楚這件事的全貌，但事實上仍有些地方是你沒有掌握到的，除非
你深入去了解它。
對任何人都該如此。
註:偶爾我們會因為迫切想幫助他人解決事情而急於提供援助，但或許在一知半解的情況
下只會造成對方的困然，然而對方又因為人情因素不方便表態。這種惡性循環只會讓人際
關係越來越糟。很多事情在出手以前不妨先換位思考，想想他人的處境再決定是否幫忙。
You may only be seeing the tip of the iceberg as you try to understand an issue
a loved one is dealing with.
Even if the individual does not implore you to try and take a multi-dimensional
look at the issue , Taurus , you should.
If you can see this from all angles , it will help you empathize with and
understand someone else's point of view , which is very important.
Even if you turly believe you are seeing the big picture , there are elements
that you probably will not see until you take a much deeper look.
You owe that to everyone who is involved.
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縱使對方並沒有懇求或要求你出手相助，或是提供其他意見，呣呣~
若你能從不同的視域去看待這個問題，那麼這會讓你對她現在的感覺更有共鳴，讓你能夠
深入了解其重要性。
即便你認為自己已經看清楚這件事的全貌，但事實上仍有些地方是你沒有掌握到的，除非
你深入去了解它。
對任何人都該如此。
註:偶爾我們會因為迫切想幫助他人解決事情而急於提供援助，但或許在一知半解的情況
下只會造成對方的困然，然而對方又因為人情因素不方便表態。這種惡性循環只會讓人際
關係越來越糟。很多事情在出手以前不妨先換位思考，想想他人的處境再決定是否幫忙。
You may only be seeing the tip of the iceberg as you try to understand an issue
a loved one is dealing with.
Even if the individual does not implore you to try and take a multi-dimensional
look at the issue , Taurus , you should.
If you can see this from all angles , it will help you empathize with and
understand someone else's point of view , which is very important.
Even if you turly believe you are seeing the big picture , there are elements
that you probably will not see until you take a much deeper look.
You owe that to everyone who is involved.
--
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