某些人在你的生活中可能帶給妳許多爭執、吵鬧甚至是怨懟。
因為你已經受夠了這些事，呣呣~打從這個人引起你的情緒開始，你便盡可能的獨斷行事。
然而，這個人可能最近幾天會有些好轉，或控制她們的情緒。
若是如此，你會因此而趁這個機會，將先前受到的對待跟他們如實告知嗎?
若能如此就再好不過了。
註:偶爾溝通的癥結點就在於此:是趁著他人改變時透漏自己的感受呢?或是為了面子而隱瞞
這件事，並安慰自己「反正他已經改變了」?
多數情況下，我們會選擇後者。但事實上，前者才是更有助於鞏固雙方交情的方法。至於
尺度上的拿捏則端看每個人與該對象能掌握的程度，但無論如何，都遠遠比自己悶在心裡
自欺欺人來的好上許多。
Someone in your life has caused you a lot strife , anger , and perhaps resentment.
Because you became so fed up with this , Taurus , you probably spoke your mind
assertively since this person can really bring out the raging bull in you.
However , this person may have turned a corner in recent days , or they may soon
improve their behavior.
If so , will you be as vocal and demonstrative about the positive changes as
you were about what upset you before?
Hopefully , you will consider this.
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因為你已經受夠了這些事，呣呣~打從這個人引起你的情緒開始，你便盡可能的獨斷行事。
然而，這個人可能最近幾天會有些好轉，或控制她們的情緒。
若是如此，你會因此而趁這個機會，將先前受到的對待跟他們如實告知嗎?
若能如此就再好不過了。
註:偶爾溝通的癥結點就在於此:是趁著他人改變時透漏自己的感受呢?或是為了面子而隱瞞
這件事，並安慰自己「反正他已經改變了」?
多數情況下，我們會選擇後者。但事實上，前者才是更有助於鞏固雙方交情的方法。至於
尺度上的拿捏則端看每個人與該對象能掌握的程度，但無論如何，都遠遠比自己悶在心裡
自欺欺人來的好上許多。
Someone in your life has caused you a lot strife , anger , and perhaps resentment.
Because you became so fed up with this , Taurus , you probably spoke your mind
assertively since this person can really bring out the raging bull in you.
However , this person may have turned a corner in recent days , or they may soon
improve their behavior.
If so , will you be as vocal and demonstrative about the positive changes as
you were about what upset you before?
Hopefully , you will consider this.
--
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