下一步是? - 巨蟹
By Blanche
at 2015-10-06T14:07
at 2015-10-06T14:07
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前面寫過蟹男喜歡上一個人的表現
上篇寫了下一步怎麼煮蟹
感覺還很多東西可以補充...
**巨蟹是寄居蟹**
一個厚厚穩穩舒適的殼就是我們最需要的安全感
這殼會讓我們習慣某種輕鬆愉悅的生活模式
如果想要蟹踏出下一步,也就是從原本的殼搬到另一個殼
那你可要先準備另一個吸引他的殼唷
而且就算你準備了安全漂亮的大房子,蟹也不一定會馬上歡歡喜喜的搬過去
因為有可能要捨棄原本的殼,這種對過去生活模式的依戀是他止步不前的原因
◎那就先講講要怎麼準備一個舒適的環境引蟹入殼
1.輕鬆無壓力愉悅的氣氛
2.能夠讓他產生自信的方式(強勢的女漢子溫柔點阿XD)
3.時時讓他有被需要的感覺(讓他覺得自己對你很重要)
4.穩定的相處模式
5.待補充
那至於什麼時候蟹才想搬到你這個殼呢
可以用一些行為來判斷,簡單來說就是願意捨棄舊殼改變自己
◎這樣講有點抽像,以我來舉例子
1.我很懶,但只有你讓我特別積極勤奮.....
2.習慣一個人的自由,如果願意割捨部分自由來陪伴你....
3.我超級嫌麻煩,老是想挑簡單的方式,但為了你不怕麻煩...
(前天驚聞獅女掉手機,一股腦就從花蓮沖去台北把自己的新手機借他
結果忘記把桌布兩人的合照改掉...我慘了= =)
4.為了讓自己變帥,把打電動耍廢的時間拿來運動健身XD
整體而言,就是可以為了你改變某些習慣
也可以為了你,培養新的習慣....
其實有蠻多人快成功吸引蟹搬家了
但可能會踩到對方的雷而縮回殼裡
◎大概有這些舉動
1.兩人爭吵對他情緒化發怒講話惡毒--不用多說了,一次就掰
2.強迫他接受你的思想,把自己認為對他好的概念強加在他頭上
3.我願意為你而改變,但請不要逼我改變
4.固執且難以理性溝通
5.不願意的事不要一直盧,他做事不要急
6.對他的異性好友吃醋,因為蟹總是對異性都很好阿XDDDD,但其實有他的界線
如果你介意的話,請跟他好好溝通你不能忍受的地方吧,勿默默生氣
◎關於忽冷忽熱
再曖昧、追求、互相吸引中這階段的忽冷忽熱...
其實就是在新殼和舊殼之間搖擺而已
如果他對你很有感覺的話,你只有始終如一的對他就會有收穫...
◎總結
總之,就先了解他原本的殼
再來經營你自己為新的殼吸引他
當新的殼的型態越接近舊的殼成功率越高
不要攻擊他舊的殼(有可能把舊的殼一起帶去新家)
嘿嘿,大概先這樣,拋磚引玉大家參祥參祥吧~~
**我比較希望網友用回文的形式然後大家一起討論啦
用寄信問我的話,我是還蠻高興的,但是怕自己的片面觀點害了你們QAQ
--
上篇寫了下一步怎麼煮蟹
感覺還很多東西可以補充...
**巨蟹是寄居蟹**
一個厚厚穩穩舒適的殼就是我們最需要的安全感
這殼會讓我們習慣某種輕鬆愉悅的生活模式
如果想要蟹踏出下一步,也就是從原本的殼搬到另一個殼
那你可要先準備另一個吸引他的殼唷
而且就算你準備了安全漂亮的大房子,蟹也不一定會馬上歡歡喜喜的搬過去
因為有可能要捨棄原本的殼,這種對過去生活模式的依戀是他止步不前的原因
◎那就先講講要怎麼準備一個舒適的環境引蟹入殼
1.輕鬆無壓力愉悅的氣氛
2.能夠讓他產生自信的方式(強勢的女漢子溫柔點阿XD)
3.時時讓他有被需要的感覺(讓他覺得自己對你很重要)
4.穩定的相處模式
5.待補充
那至於什麼時候蟹才想搬到你這個殼呢
可以用一些行為來判斷,簡單來說就是願意捨棄舊殼改變自己
◎這樣講有點抽像,以我來舉例子
1.我很懶,但只有你讓我特別積極勤奮.....
2.習慣一個人的自由,如果願意割捨部分自由來陪伴你....
3.我超級嫌麻煩,老是想挑簡單的方式,但為了你不怕麻煩...
(前天驚聞獅女掉手機,一股腦就從花蓮沖去台北把自己的新手機借他
結果忘記把桌布兩人的合照改掉...我慘了= =)
4.為了讓自己變帥,把打電動耍廢的時間拿來運動健身XD
整體而言,就是可以為了你改變某些習慣
也可以為了你,培養新的習慣....
其實有蠻多人快成功吸引蟹搬家了
但可能會踩到對方的雷而縮回殼裡
◎大概有這些舉動
1.兩人爭吵對他情緒化發怒講話惡毒--不用多說了,一次就掰
2.強迫他接受你的思想,把自己認為對他好的概念強加在他頭上
3.我願意為你而改變,但請不要逼我改變
4.固執且難以理性溝通
5.不願意的事不要一直盧,他做事不要急
6.對他的異性好友吃醋,因為蟹總是對異性都很好阿XDDDD,但其實有他的界線
如果你介意的話,請跟他好好溝通你不能忍受的地方吧,勿默默生氣
◎關於忽冷忽熱
再曖昧、追求、互相吸引中這階段的忽冷忽熱...
其實就是在新殼和舊殼之間搖擺而已
如果他對你很有感覺的話,你只有始終如一的對他就會有收穫...
◎總結
總之,就先了解他原本的殼
再來經營你自己為新的殼吸引他
當新的殼的型態越接近舊的殼成功率越高
不要攻擊他舊的殼(有可能把舊的殼一起帶去新家)
嘿嘿,大概先這樣,拋磚引玉大家參祥參祥吧~~
**我比較希望網友用回文的形式然後大家一起討論啦
用寄信問我的話,我是還蠻高興的,但是怕自己的片面觀點害了你們QAQ
--
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