不願承認情侶關係的獅男 - 獅子

By Linda
at 2016-08-15T20:46
at 2016-08-15T20:46
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原Po與獅男在交往前為朋友關係無曖昧,
平常會一起喝酒聊天,但都是與朋友聚會,
無單獨出去過
獅男前女友A曾經在他們交往過程中
懷疑過我和另一個女性朋友
與獅男之間的朋友關係,
獅男當時的回覆是,
大家都是單純的朋友,
絕對不會與A懷疑的任何一個人在一起。
約莫過了兩三年後,
獅男因個性不合向A提出分開一陣子的要求,
(據他而言是已經忍受了四年之久)
後來因為工作上與獅男多有交集,
後來因為工作上與獅男多有交集,
且獅男總是在我最需要的時候出現給予幫助,
我就喜歡上獅男了,開始倒追他,
經過一段時日,我們在一起了。
獅男從不肯向朋友透露我們已經交往的事情,
(除了我們之間比較好的共同好友外)
但另一方面,我已經見過他們家的許多長輩。
偶爾巧遇他的朋友時,
他總是刻意把我與他之間的距離拉開,
甚至叫我先回家等他之類的,
朋友來電或音訊聊天時,也要我安靜不要出聲,
Facebook不能公開我與他的合照,
最初這常常是我們吵架的關鍵,
我跟他說,
我又不是偷偷摸摸跟你在一起的,
為什麼這麼怕我露臉?
是不是跟我在一起讓你覺得很丟臉?
而他總是回答,
因為不想讓前女友誤會他是因為劈腿而與她分手,
所以不想公開。
我能接受獅男顧慮的理由,
但不是他與A的共同好友也是如此,
就讓我無法理解。
他最後便總是生氣的回答說,
我都帶你回家見我的父母和親戚了,
有什麼讓妳覺得不安全的嗎?
每次的爭論總是無疾而終,我後來就讓步了,
我以為時間過去,會慢慢改善的,
但我與獅男現已交往近三年,
情形卻依舊如此。
雖然他跟我說,我們若工作都穩定下來了,
雖然他跟我說,我們若工作都穩定下來了,
這一兩年就結婚吧,
這一兩年就結婚吧,
但我心裡仍舊不免有疑惑
想要請問各位,獅男到底在想些什麼?
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All Comments

By Olivia
at 2016-08-18T12:12
at 2016-08-18T12:12
那邊怎麼跟朋友說很難預料啊啊

By Ingrid
at 2016-08-19T04:45
at 2016-08-19T04:45

By Carol
at 2016-08-22T17:30
at 2016-08-22T17:30

By Carolina Franco
at 2016-08-27T15:12
at 2016-08-27T15:12
們?

By Dora
at 2016-09-01T05:46
at 2016-09-01T05:46

By Valerie
at 2016-09-02T04:30
at 2016-09-02T04:30
這樣也能三年 一定很帥厚 QQ
這樣也能三年 一定很帥厚 QQ
這樣也能三年 一定很帥厚 QQ

By Frederic
at 2016-09-03T09:59
at 2016-09-03T09:59
常不會有交集,他不對友人公開肯定是有所顧慮

By Callum
at 2016-09-06T22:13
at 2016-09-06T22:13
見長輩不代表什麼 我很懂!

By Quintina
at 2016-09-10T08:10
at 2016-09-10T08:10

By Poppy
at 2016-09-12T00:05
at 2016-09-12T00:05
(也可以修改感情狀態的同時,動態也留一句一言難盡)
(也可以修改感情狀態的同時,動態也留一句一言難盡)

By Joe
at 2016-09-16T23:54
at 2016-09-16T23:54

By Donna
at 2016-09-19T06:22
at 2016-09-19T06:22

By Ula
at 2016-09-22T22:34
at 2016-09-22T22:34
然後他若問妳為啥修改感情狀態妳就只回一句"不想講"

By Tristan Cohan
at 2016-09-23T01:13
at 2016-09-23T01:13

By Carolina Franco
at 2016-09-23T18:42
at 2016-09-23T18:42

By Eartha
at 2016-09-24T09:11
at 2016-09-24T09:11

By Megan
at 2016-09-25T06:44
at 2016-09-25T06:44

By Blanche
at 2016-09-27T03:03
at 2016-09-27T03:03

By Margaret
at 2016-10-01T12:42
at 2016-10-01T12:42

By Zora
at 2016-10-04T14:17
at 2016-10-04T14:17
覺得保持你們的關係對他也有好處(跟家人交差,未來
真的沒更愛的人也可以結婚) 千萬別玩一言難盡 除非
真的沒更愛的人也可以結婚) 千萬別玩一言難盡 除非
真的沒更愛的人也可以結婚) 千萬別玩一言難盡 除非

By Steve
at 2016-10-05T16:51
at 2016-10-05T16:51
妳也想放生了...慢慢溝通看他在意的點是什麼吧 不要
用吵的或用爭的...只會加深他的不認定

By Leila
at 2016-10-08T15:23
at 2016-10-08T15:23

By Ingrid
at 2016-10-10T23:22
at 2016-10-10T23:22

By Thomas
at 2016-10-11T07:59
at 2016-10-11T07:59
不對父母公開根據我個人經驗,就是覺得維持現狀優先

By Callum
at 2016-10-12T06:42
at 2016-10-12T06:42

By Dinah
at 2016-10-15T02:49
at 2016-10-15T02:49

By Jacob
at 2016-10-15T13:30
at 2016-10-15T13:30

By Vanessa
at 2016-10-20T03:10
at 2016-10-20T03:10
不跟家人說是不想被逼婚或被評論吧

By Isla
at 2016-10-20T15:50
at 2016-10-20T15:50

By Tracy
at 2016-10-22T13:54
at 2016-10-22T13:54
他解開

By Quintina
at 2016-10-24T13:44
at 2016-10-24T13:44

By Isla
at 2016-10-25T04:01
at 2016-10-25T04:01

By Tristan Cohan
at 2016-10-26T16:12
at 2016-10-26T16:12

By William
at 2016-10-31T14:25
at 2016-10-31T14:25
階下就算了

By Mary
at 2016-11-04T13:09
at 2016-11-04T13:09
事被不熟的人閒言閒語的,越是你覺得無關緊要的對象
他反而越不想讓妳曝光,共同好友和家人則無所謂。比
他反而越不想讓妳曝光,共同好友和家人則無所謂。比
起請板友拿藥單,妳可能需要改變溝通的方式去讓他瞭
解妳的不安,尋找共識。
解妳的不安,尋找共識。

By Caitlin
at 2016-11-06T10:43
at 2016-11-06T10:43
的朋友們覺得你是扶正

By William
at 2016-11-10T01:12
at 2016-11-10T01:12
看文以為前男友...不過這非常獅子男啊...面子猶如

By William
at 2016-11-12T20:29
at 2016-11-12T20:29
馬上公開,都已經和前任分手了,隨便她誤會還是怎
樣,讓現任安心是我最重要的事了。

By Andrew
at 2016-11-15T12:32
at 2016-11-15T12:32
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