交往4年了才發現..瓶男悄悄的精神外遇 - 水瓶

By Una
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我和水瓶男在一起將近5年,去年被我發現他在外地認識A女後,兩個人密集的聯絡。其實我跟他在一起這幾年來,我們有過無數次吵架,多半都是他覺得我不懂他給我的觀念跟想法。
一直去年底,無意間發現A女傳照片給他,他緊張的說傳錯的,並不認識照片中的女生,我說「喔!是嗎?那我幫你回撥給對方告訴她傳錯了」他一直拒絕讓我覺得他怪怪的。
後來他老實跟我說照片中的女生是A女,他跟A女認識快一年了,他說對方很懂他的想法跟觀念,他說他有事情會想要去問A女如何解決,他說A女給他的回應都能幫助的到他...
身為他女友的我聽到這番話何不心痛?原來我的男友跟A女關係這麼密切..
隔了幾個月,某天,我下班回家,發現他再講電話,但他一看到我回來馬上掛上電話,並且把手機夾在大腿裡,這樣的舉動引起我的注意,我問他怎麼了?他一直不肯跟我說,
我很擔心的一直問他是不是發生什麼事情了?...只見他表情痛苦卻不肯說..他後來躺到床上,我問他到底怎麼了?他眼框紅紅的看著我,只問我「其實你很難過,對不對?」我差點掉眼淚,因為他從沒這樣過!這樣的他讓我更荒張..
接著他坐了起來,一直想講卻又不敢說出來,我坐在他旁邊,安靜的陪他,他終於肯說了,「我想跟你分手」...我愣住了,笑著問他是不是在開玩笑?上班前還好好的啊!怎麼我一下班就跟我說要分手...
他說他考慮想跟A女交往...
那天,後來我們還是沒有分手,一直到現在,我跟他為了A女的事情吵了很多次,他很直接的告訴我「我就是在拖時間,因為我不知道我跟你分手之後跟A女在一起是不是會長久,但是我也不想放棄A女,所以我在等,等你們兩個看誰先受不了離開我,我大不了兩個都不要。」...
我知道很多人看到這邊一定會說,直接離開他就好了啊!..沒有人會了解我跟他在一起這幾年,我們一起共同克服的事情,我們一起為了未來的努力...
現在,我一直很努力的在改變,試著讓我們彼此的關係更好,可是一切的努力都抵不住,當我聽到他隔著電話對A女說我愛你的時候,我心都碎了......
我還在奢望什麼?因為還很愛很愛,因為不願意也捨不得就這樣放棄,但是每當想到他跟A女講電話,心中的酸就不斷湧出,為什麼這麼苦?
他一直不願意當著我的面打給A女了斷,其實我也有A女的電話,但又如何呢?打過去我能說什麼呢?他甚至告訴我,A女不願意放棄他..就如同我不願意分手一樣...
他說他也是有再做改變的,只是他不敢給我保證以後會怎樣,至少他還沒狠下心跟我分手..我知道以他的個性,只要他真的下定決心,他會不管我死活也堅決要分手..
誰能告訴我,我到底該如何去面對他?..
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一直去年底,無意間發現A女傳照片給他,他緊張的說傳錯的,並不認識照片中的女生,我說「喔!是嗎?那我幫你回撥給對方告訴她傳錯了」他一直拒絕讓我覺得他怪怪的。
後來他老實跟我說照片中的女生是A女,他跟A女認識快一年了,他說對方很懂他的想法跟觀念,他說他有事情會想要去問A女如何解決,他說A女給他的回應都能幫助的到他...
身為他女友的我聽到這番話何不心痛?原來我的男友跟A女關係這麼密切..
隔了幾個月,某天,我下班回家,發現他再講電話,但他一看到我回來馬上掛上電話,並且把手機夾在大腿裡,這樣的舉動引起我的注意,我問他怎麼了?他一直不肯跟我說,
我很擔心的一直問他是不是發生什麼事情了?...只見他表情痛苦卻不肯說..他後來躺到床上,我問他到底怎麼了?他眼框紅紅的看著我,只問我「其實你很難過,對不對?」我差點掉眼淚,因為他從沒這樣過!這樣的他讓我更荒張..
接著他坐了起來,一直想講卻又不敢說出來,我坐在他旁邊,安靜的陪他,他終於肯說了,「我想跟你分手」...我愣住了,笑著問他是不是在開玩笑?上班前還好好的啊!怎麼我一下班就跟我說要分手...
他說他考慮想跟A女交往...
那天,後來我們還是沒有分手,一直到現在,我跟他為了A女的事情吵了很多次,他很直接的告訴我「我就是在拖時間,因為我不知道我跟你分手之後跟A女在一起是不是會長久,但是我也不想放棄A女,所以我在等,等你們兩個看誰先受不了離開我,我大不了兩個都不要。」...
我知道很多人看到這邊一定會說,直接離開他就好了啊!..沒有人會了解我跟他在一起這幾年,我們一起共同克服的事情,我們一起為了未來的努力...
現在,我一直很努力的在改變,試著讓我們彼此的關係更好,可是一切的努力都抵不住,當我聽到他隔著電話對A女說我愛你的時候,我心都碎了......
我還在奢望什麼?因為還很愛很愛,因為不願意也捨不得就這樣放棄,但是每當想到他跟A女講電話,心中的酸就不斷湧出,為什麼這麼苦?
他一直不願意當著我的面打給A女了斷,其實我也有A女的電話,但又如何呢?打過去我能說什麼呢?他甚至告訴我,A女不願意放棄他..就如同我不願意分手一樣...
他說他也是有再做改變的,只是他不敢給我保證以後會怎樣,至少他還沒狠下心跟我分手..我知道以他的個性,只要他真的下定決心,他會不管我死活也堅決要分手..
誰能告訴我,我到底該如何去面對他?..
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