冷靜期 - 牡羊
By Zenobia
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→ cindy2015:同為牛女+遠距離 我覺得你很糟糕 也不是這麼的愛他 03/03 09:44
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→ cindy2015:我並不覺得妳珍惜這段感情 先傷人還來問怎麼挽回 作夢 03/03 09:47
: Cindy2015 , I don't think you could judge my love by your personal experience. : I totally understand his hard-working and I would be willing to support him
: with all my heart. But I know what I felt, I just need his care when I am
: illy sick.
: I can't accept your conclusion. It's too hurt.
恩,但妳有想過為什麼別人這樣回嗎?
妳有想過妳提供的資訊當中,有關男方的想法著墨的太少、有關妳們相處的模式
總結起來只有「他在中國」、「他很忙」,以及妳們彼此隱藏與試探,然後就開
始說妳的心情、尋求解答。
我認同cindy2015,因為這次的暫時分離是妳自找的,是妳說了「分手」當試探
的,同為牛女+遠距,我們以我們與另一半的相處模式來看妳所說的那些,覺得
妳這樣很糟。
尤其是針對測試愛情這件事情。
如果傷到妳,也許妳可以多談一些妳們的相處模式。我回妳的文章有問妳,他平
常怎麼與妳相處的,妳說妳需要在生病的時候有他的關懷,這我絕對同意,但妳
並沒有多提供資訊的PO文中,看不出來的。
金牛到底有沒有太固執或自我中心這點我是不曉得,但不論有或沒有,我建議妳
在這麼快就受傷以前先想一下為什麼大家會推c大的推文..如果都是這種講一半
然後妳很快就因此受傷的情況,這樣的不良溝通模式也許也可能發生在妳跟妳男
人身上,先想辦法講清楚、知道要溝通的點是什麼比較重要。
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