分手後FB還有需要留著嘛? - 射手
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By Iris
at 2016-12-08T09:33
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前男友射手座,最後分手是我提出我們之間相處的一些問題想知道他的想法,
前男友不想溝通直接說分手,認為在一起要磨合要讓步會不開心,不適合就是分手,
他很少說出他的想法,所以我常要腦補要替他想但又不確定自己想的對不對自己也很累,
提出問題,既然他不想溝通要分手應該也是認真想過的,我也就接受這決定。
分手已經8個多月了,原本說好還可以是朋友,所以我偶爾還是會關心他。
但是他似乎覺得有壓力,就突然說他無法當朋友。
問他為什麼?他說:現在不想以後再說 。(我猜應該就是再也不想連絡)
分手後我問過他覺得不適合的點是什麼?他都會說他沒想法。
分手3個多月,突然說無法當朋友也就尊重他。
這之後的2個月,輾轉知道他搬家調分行回家鄉
只留FACEBOOK 但是傳訊息問他怎麼突然搬回家 他也都是不讀
我知道要尊重他的態度 所以我就再也不打擾
這是射手版,可能會被很多射手說我試著要聯絡他會覺得煩
我花很多時間去了解 我跟射手的想法是完全不同的
我單純就是知道走不下去 但是在彼此單身的前提下 可以互相關心
畢竟曾經在一起過 好好的分手祝福彼此 我覺得很好 知道彼此分手後過得好就好
他的想法是完全不想讓我知道他的消息 消失得滿徹底 但又不說明
我會覺得有什麼好逃避的 當然他要消失我就好好過我自己的生活
我沒有想要挽回或是放不下 我是看透了 可以當朋友就是最好 當然他不行 就算了
我也怕繼續跟他有聯絡他會一直誤會我放不下 或是覺得我找各種理由要關心他
我猜測他想法應該是認為分手後沒有什麼可以聊的 就算以前有任何誤解他都不想解釋
也不想面對 所以就逃避消失對他自己最好
他很少用fb 分手後有更新我偶爾會按讚或留言(真的非常少,因為怕他反感)
直到有一天他去了我原本也要去的音樂祭打卡
我完全沒想法的認為留言沒有什麼
結果他把我留言刪除 然後打卡改為封鎖我, 跟封鎖我好朋友
我才覺得 他可能會認為我很在意他的FB (我本來就是比較常用FB的人)
自此之後他的狀態持續封鎖我跟我好朋友
我會知道是因為我近期有去一個音樂節,他也有去,我們打了一個一模一樣的卡
所以共同朋友以為我們是一起去的 但是我是看不到他打卡的
想問:他不想讓我知道他的狀態,好幾個月前的私訊也都不讀了(卻也沒封鎖訊息)
為什麼還要留著FB? 為什麼不直接刪除? 是希望我自己刪除嘛?
以前問過他分手後要不要刪除 他也說FB是我自己的我自己決定
當然我也是這樣認為我自己決定,但就因為是好好的分手我覺得放著沒有差別
我對他的了解,他也不會來看我的FB
但是知道他刻意封鎖我後 就想說 也太用心了 連我好朋友一起封鎖 為什麼不直接刪除我?
想知道射手座的想法會是怎麼認為的? 可以建議我怎麼做他比較不會反感嘛?
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