到底怎麼抓 - 天秤

By Audriana
at 2016-09-04T00:45
at 2016-09-04T00:45
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=========================此格式為詢問愛情交往問題專用=====================
(若幫人代問,請填寫當事人的資料)
1. 是否已經詳細閱讀精華區與置底文摘的文章:
2. 我的星座是:金牛
3. 對方的星座是:男秤
4. 自己的個性 (請以20字內簡短敘述自己的個性) :外冷內熱,金星牡羊所以喜歡很容
易衝動很急,但我會壓抑自己不要太黏
5. 問題發生的背景:文長 (我怕被發現所以對話內容就比較不那麼細打QQ
已經跟天秤男曖昧了快三個禮拜了,期間內都有很明確的說希望我能占有他或是說他是我
的!他有情傷過,所以很小心,很怕再被拋棄
他雖然表面跟朋友都很愛嘴砲,但其實私底下是個憂鬱的男孩
我也看得出來他對我說話的方式跟他朋友是不同的
我們三個禮拜內只出去過一次,他剛見面的時候非常的害羞到我覺得很可愛~像是不敢跟
我對眼,然後小動作很多很緊張,他非常貼心非常會照顧人,個性有些孩子氣,那天還給
了我小驚喜
出去當天也主動說要載我回家
我晚上問他他也說他剛去的時候很緊張~
我朋友們看過我們的對話都覺得很像就差一步,大家都覺得看了很急
因為我們常常在打太極
他感覺佔有慾也挺強,只要我出去都會問
或是我提到朋友,他就會覺得是不是男生,後期我也都會解釋是女生(剛開始我比較不會
解釋太多,但後期想說給他安全感就會解釋
像是第一個禮拜聊天時我只是稍微提到男生朋友,他就好像被急到就問我喜歡什麼樣的男
生,我就簡單地說了一下,然後我就問他那他呢
他就說出了我的條件和我之前和他說過的一些話,反正也是滿明顯的直球
但當時我不小心跟他打太極害他小冷掉,但我後來有撒嬌挽回
而且我說過的小事他都會記得(但我就有點神經大條,像之前他跟我說過他工作的事我忘
記再問一次,他就覺得介意
之前我就不小心記錯他的事
他:你又記到哪個男生了?
他給我的感覺就是很缺乏安全感
他也很怕我誤會他有其他線,所以只要我有試探他都會認真的解釋(他感覺想得很多,所
以只要稍微試探他就都會清楚的講
我也問過他對每個女生都這麼好嗎,
他回我說:怎麼可能
其實他給我的感覺就是很粉紅系的男孩子,明明骨子裡就是很可愛,可是對外又愛裝的比
較酷(因為他長得也秀氣
他其實給我很多安全感,所以我覺得他就算沒有密切的跟我聊整天我也沒關係,但我其實
有些容易受朋友的話影響(耳根子軟
只要朋友嚇我說有鬼,我就會小劇場爆炸QQ(但只要朋友沒說基本上我是滿安心的,而且
版上都說要信任秤男不然會先自己崩潰
常常會跟我說想看我,我就也會拍照給他
只是我怕他會煩,所以不會整天都密他,像是我知道他工作的話我就不會密他,就變成我
會等到晚上看他有沒有密我,大部分他都會,假設我自己受不了也會主動
因為他外型條件不錯,所以很怕他被撩走就有些急(他很常被女生貼到別人吃他豆腐他會
生氣
我自己其實是那種要在一起都會很快就在一起,我都會拿球砸對方臉上的那種,所以他緩
慢緩慢的讓我很焦慮,看板上也說秤男可以跟你磨很久
八月底也有在試著約他,但他後來就說他接下來假日都有事,等班表出來再告訴我(這讓
我有點小劇場就是了
前天我又問他說他班表什麼時候出來?
他:今天~
我:看完再告訴我喔
他:好
(但這兩天他都還沒說
前天我跟他聊得比平常密切一點,就是整天都有聊,我其實是想多讓他知道我對他是有意
思的,他放假去幫朋友慶生,
像是他到了就會告訴我他到了,他不會瑣碎的事都講,但是像下班了,或是去上班他會說
(但對我來說這樣就夠了,因為我自己也不是那種瑣碎事都會報備
我朋友都覺得我講話常常會讓對方覺得我可能還有別條線或誤會,所以叫我要練習講話真
誠,昨天我也認真的得拿球砸他臉
他:你是認真的想抓我嗎
(對話我就不細打了我很怕被認QQ
我就說我是認真的那你給我抓嗎,之後他就還是說他自己的不好怕我後悔,然後我就安慰
他(因為他之前跟我聊到前幾段感情就常常覺得是不是自己不好對方才不要他
我還以為我昨天應該能get但後來他就給我轉移話題(真的很想扁他
反正我也明確的讓他知道我的意思了,再來我又要放慢步調,因為我也不想太逼他(他前
任就是逼他們在一起然後交往一個月就甩了他,讓他有陰影
今天我就也都沒密他,他剛剛就自己密我問我在幹麻
我真的超級不會給人安全感的(前任們就是這樣被我逼瘋
加上他歷練豐富,所以難抓
我又怕他只把我當備胎
每天都超認真的爬板QQ(掙扎很久才決定發文,真的很怕被認
他訊息偶爾秒讀偶爾放一下但都會回,他已讀的話我通常就不會在接了(我已讀他的話他
也是隔天他會在密),雖然沒密切聊但每天都會聊,每天都會有曖昧的話
金星在牡羊所以快被他逼瘋
反正我是暈了
6. 爬完置底文摘後,仍想問的是:
我該在約他一次嗎?還是等他看看(很怕他不想跟我出去所以才沒主動在提放假QQ
我已經主動提兩次了(都是這禮拜的事
他剛剛又跟我說他明天放假待會要跟朋友出去抓寶(但還是沒說班表啊!!但我真的不懂
他想怎樣,他還要觀察多久~~~~
我到底要怎麼樣讓他主動?
他對我到底是什麼意思QQ?
求問秤男們我到底要怎樣才能抓到他?
--
(若幫人代問,請填寫當事人的資料)
1. 是否已經詳細閱讀精華區與置底文摘的文章:
2. 我的星座是:金牛
3. 對方的星座是:男秤
4. 自己的個性 (請以20字內簡短敘述自己的個性) :外冷內熱,金星牡羊所以喜歡很容
易衝動很急,但我會壓抑自己不要太黏
5. 問題發生的背景:文長 (我怕被發現所以對話內容就比較不那麼細打QQ
已經跟天秤男曖昧了快三個禮拜了,期間內都有很明確的說希望我能占有他或是說他是我
的!他有情傷過,所以很小心,很怕再被拋棄
他雖然表面跟朋友都很愛嘴砲,但其實私底下是個憂鬱的男孩
我也看得出來他對我說話的方式跟他朋友是不同的
我們三個禮拜內只出去過一次,他剛見面的時候非常的害羞到我覺得很可愛~像是不敢跟
我對眼,然後小動作很多很緊張,他非常貼心非常會照顧人,個性有些孩子氣,那天還給
了我小驚喜
出去當天也主動說要載我回家
我晚上問他他也說他剛去的時候很緊張~
我朋友們看過我們的對話都覺得很像就差一步,大家都覺得看了很急
因為我們常常在打太極
他感覺佔有慾也挺強,只要我出去都會問
或是我提到朋友,他就會覺得是不是男生,後期我也都會解釋是女生(剛開始我比較不會
解釋太多,但後期想說給他安全感就會解釋
像是第一個禮拜聊天時我只是稍微提到男生朋友,他就好像被急到就問我喜歡什麼樣的男
生,我就簡單地說了一下,然後我就問他那他呢
他就說出了我的條件和我之前和他說過的一些話,反正也是滿明顯的直球
但當時我不小心跟他打太極害他小冷掉,但我後來有撒嬌挽回
而且我說過的小事他都會記得(但我就有點神經大條,像之前他跟我說過他工作的事我忘
記再問一次,他就覺得介意
之前我就不小心記錯他的事
他:你又記到哪個男生了?
他給我的感覺就是很缺乏安全感
他也很怕我誤會他有其他線,所以只要我有試探他都會認真的解釋(他感覺想得很多,所
以只要稍微試探他就都會清楚的講
我也問過他對每個女生都這麼好嗎,
他回我說:怎麼可能
其實他給我的感覺就是很粉紅系的男孩子,明明骨子裡就是很可愛,可是對外又愛裝的比
較酷(因為他長得也秀氣
他其實給我很多安全感,所以我覺得他就算沒有密切的跟我聊整天我也沒關係,但我其實
有些容易受朋友的話影響(耳根子軟
只要朋友嚇我說有鬼,我就會小劇場爆炸QQ(但只要朋友沒說基本上我是滿安心的,而且
版上都說要信任秤男不然會先自己崩潰
常常會跟我說想看我,我就也會拍照給他
只是我怕他會煩,所以不會整天都密他,像是我知道他工作的話我就不會密他,就變成我
會等到晚上看他有沒有密我,大部分他都會,假設我自己受不了也會主動
因為他外型條件不錯,所以很怕他被撩走就有些急(他很常被女生貼到別人吃他豆腐他會
生氣
我自己其實是那種要在一起都會很快就在一起,我都會拿球砸對方臉上的那種,所以他緩
慢緩慢的讓我很焦慮,看板上也說秤男可以跟你磨很久
八月底也有在試著約他,但他後來就說他接下來假日都有事,等班表出來再告訴我(這讓
我有點小劇場就是了
前天我又問他說他班表什麼時候出來?
他:今天~
我:看完再告訴我喔
他:好
(但這兩天他都還沒說
前天我跟他聊得比平常密切一點,就是整天都有聊,我其實是想多讓他知道我對他是有意
思的,他放假去幫朋友慶生,
像是他到了就會告訴我他到了,他不會瑣碎的事都講,但是像下班了,或是去上班他會說
(但對我來說這樣就夠了,因為我自己也不是那種瑣碎事都會報備
我朋友都覺得我講話常常會讓對方覺得我可能還有別條線或誤會,所以叫我要練習講話真
誠,昨天我也認真的得拿球砸他臉
他:你是認真的想抓我嗎
(對話我就不細打了我很怕被認QQ
我就說我是認真的那你給我抓嗎,之後他就還是說他自己的不好怕我後悔,然後我就安慰
他(因為他之前跟我聊到前幾段感情就常常覺得是不是自己不好對方才不要他
我還以為我昨天應該能get但後來他就給我轉移話題(真的很想扁他
反正我也明確的讓他知道我的意思了,再來我又要放慢步調,因為我也不想太逼他(他前
任就是逼他們在一起然後交往一個月就甩了他,讓他有陰影
今天我就也都沒密他,他剛剛就自己密我問我在幹麻
我真的超級不會給人安全感的(前任們就是這樣被我逼瘋
加上他歷練豐富,所以難抓
我又怕他只把我當備胎
每天都超認真的爬板QQ(掙扎很久才決定發文,真的很怕被認
他訊息偶爾秒讀偶爾放一下但都會回,他已讀的話我通常就不會在接了(我已讀他的話他
也是隔天他會在密),雖然沒密切聊但每天都會聊,每天都會有曖昧的話
金星在牡羊所以快被他逼瘋
反正我是暈了
6. 爬完置底文摘後,仍想問的是:
我該在約他一次嗎?還是等他看看(很怕他不想跟我出去所以才沒主動在提放假QQ
我已經主動提兩次了(都是這禮拜的事
他剛剛又跟我說他明天放假待會要跟朋友出去抓寶(但還是沒說班表啊!!但我真的不懂
他想怎樣,他還要觀察多久~~~~
我到底要怎麼樣讓他主動?
他對我到底是什麼意思QQ?
求問秤男們我到底要怎樣才能抓到他?
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