受過傷的大貓...是不是該放棄了? - 獅子
By Audriana
at 2017-04-23T13:09
at 2017-04-23T13:09
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之前有po文發問獅男是有好感還是只是展現風度,
推文中V大建議可以直接討論,
我也覺得大家都一把年紀了,沒什麼不能好好談的。
剛好最近有個朋友突然說要結婚,
對象也是網路上認識的,同樣是異國遠距,
想說那就拿來當聊天話題吧!
一開始他也是問了大多數人會問的問題,
那女方會搬去跟男方一起嗎?還是男生會搬來?
還有工作問題等等。
我就說,工作上沒有太大問題,因為女方算是soho,
但是以後怎麼住他們還在討論。
他就說,遠距真的很難維持。
於是我趁機問他有遠距過嗎?他說有。
上一段感情就是,前女友在另一個國家,而且想要繼續待在那,
但他自己又不想去那個國家住。
我問他這段感情維持很久嗎?他說沒有,就幾個月。
因為對他來說不確定性太大,他無法預料未來會如何。
我跟他說,有時候感情上好像就是得要有其中一方願意改變,
如果雙方可以好好討論,有個共識的話,至少有機會可以開花結果。
況且當對象是不同人的時候,就可能有不一樣的發展。
當然他可能會覺得我太天真、甚至可笑。
他回我,他不覺得這樣的想法很可笑或很天真,
因為抱持著正面的想法永遠不會錯。
(這半年多來他的確不管在任何事都是很正向樂觀的人)
他還說,如果只是短時間的遠距或許還有可能,
但他不覺得他會想要再經歷一次。
看到這句話,我心瞬間沉了。
老實說我已經很久沒有這麼為一個人心動的感覺,
所以一直想說不管怎樣我都要努力看看。
於是我用了個比較輕鬆的方式跟他說,
如果哪天你改變心意了記得告訴我啊!我可以過去的!
但放心,除非你提起,不然我不會再說。
他回我,不用擔心,妳隨時都可以說妳想要說的話。
我說,好喔!你說的! 然後就跟他說了晚安。
我知道受過傷的人,一定會想得特別多,無論任何星座。
但對我來說,他真的是個特別的緣分,很想好好把握。
在我回來後他也跟我說,他很高興我去了,還見了面。
雖然他喜歡我,還是希望我可以找到一個我喜歡卻不是在那麼遙遠的地方的人。
我說我也喜歡他,而且喜歡是因為彼此間的互動和感覺,跟距離哪有關係。
以後會怎樣也還不知道。他說他很高興聽到我這樣說。
請問各位,照這個狀況,我是該繼續努力,還是就直接放手了?
先謝謝大家。
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