天秤座會跟不是很愛的人結婚嗎? - 天秤
By Carolina Franco
at 2017-12-30T12:02
at 2017-12-30T12:02
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其實很多人,姑且不談星座,
對婚姻的態度都是這樣:
只要兩權相害取其輕,
兩權相利嘛,若不能全拿,就取其重。
取得利益最大化的觀點
是因為他們認為婚姻和愛情不一樣。
也的確不一樣,但看人怎麼經營。
不是最愛但還有喜歡,那可以過日子就好。
對方有小缺點,只要在自己可容忍範圍內,
他可以提供給我的好處大過於這些忍耐,
那就睜一隻眼閉一隻眼好了。
反正也不是討厭的人,沒必要撕破臉,
換新的對象很累,需要重新培養默契,
需要重新了解彼此,調整互動模式,
能不改變最好。
跟最愛在一起不一定能過好日子,
那種備受挑戰的生活很多人不願意過。
尤其面對真愛的時候,
其實會面臨很大的內心恐懼,
因為你真心愛對方,
對方就擁有傷害你的能力。
這大部分的情況跟星座沒什麼關係,
是個人價值觀的選擇而已。
有些人會覺得戀愛對象不能進入婚姻,
是源自於他們對婚姻的恐懼,
認為婚姻一定要很嚴肅,
或者他們看過的婚姻樣本裡沒有情趣,
只能談柴米油鹽醬醋茶,
所以能談戀愛的對象帶到婚姻裡會毀掉,
會變成黃臉婆,愛會漸漸消退。
人很難面對「我當初很愛你但現在不愛了」
這個事實,所以最好不要去觸碰。
但說白了,不就是你能力不足,
沒辦法在婚姻裡維持愛的熱度嗎?(冷笑)
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對婚姻的態度都是這樣:
只要兩權相害取其輕,
兩權相利嘛,若不能全拿,就取其重。
取得利益最大化的觀點
是因為他們認為婚姻和愛情不一樣。
也的確不一樣,但看人怎麼經營。
不是最愛但還有喜歡,那可以過日子就好。
對方有小缺點,只要在自己可容忍範圍內,
他可以提供給我的好處大過於這些忍耐,
那就睜一隻眼閉一隻眼好了。
反正也不是討厭的人,沒必要撕破臉,
換新的對象很累,需要重新培養默契,
需要重新了解彼此,調整互動模式,
能不改變最好。
跟最愛在一起不一定能過好日子,
那種備受挑戰的生活很多人不願意過。
尤其面對真愛的時候,
其實會面臨很大的內心恐懼,
因為你真心愛對方,
對方就擁有傷害你的能力。
這大部分的情況跟星座沒什麼關係,
是個人價值觀的選擇而已。
有些人會覺得戀愛對象不能進入婚姻,
是源自於他們對婚姻的恐懼,
認為婚姻一定要很嚴肅,
或者他們看過的婚姻樣本裡沒有情趣,
只能談柴米油鹽醬醋茶,
所以能談戀愛的對象帶到婚姻裡會毀掉,
會變成黃臉婆,愛會漸漸消退。
人很難面對「我當初很愛你但現在不愛了」
這個事實,所以最好不要去觸碰。
但說白了,不就是你能力不足,
沒辦法在婚姻裡維持愛的熱度嗎?(冷笑)
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