天秤是不是很渴望被了解但又覺得很難? - 天秤

By Agatha
at 2009-09-02T14:45
at 2009-09-02T14:45
Table of Contents
=======================此心情抒發專為天秤寶寶設置======================
今日想抒發的心情是: 哀
心情背景:似乎很難被了解....
希望跟板友分享的是:跟朋友聊天後有時候感到低落~
有時候發現自己總是能扮演一個好的傾聽者
常常有人喜歡告訴我他們的心事
就算朋友的價值觀和自己不同
但對於別人的煩惱
我還是願意試著去了解他的立場
去體諒他的感受
而不會太主觀的去評論別人的事情
或是認為別人的煩惱其實沒什麼之類的
但身邊這樣的人卻似乎很少
如果和朋友透露一點煩惱的事情
他們往往很容易就把別人的困擾簡單化
或是很主觀的評論
有時候被質疑的時候
當下總是不知道該怎麼反駁
可是事後就會想著
如果當時直接回什麼話就好了XD
是不是天秤都很渴望被了解
或是獲得一點別人的同理心
但往往都是我們自己在做的事情>"<
常常被別人說
"妳好了解我喔"
但我有時候也很想被別人了解~
不想總是得到一句
"是妳自己想太多啦"
--
今日想抒發的心情是: 哀
心情背景:似乎很難被了解....
希望跟板友分享的是:跟朋友聊天後有時候感到低落~
有時候發現自己總是能扮演一個好的傾聽者
常常有人喜歡告訴我他們的心事
就算朋友的價值觀和自己不同
但對於別人的煩惱
我還是願意試著去了解他的立場
去體諒他的感受
而不會太主觀的去評論別人的事情
或是認為別人的煩惱其實沒什麼之類的
但身邊這樣的人卻似乎很少
如果和朋友透露一點煩惱的事情
他們往往很容易就把別人的困擾簡單化
或是很主觀的評論
有時候被質疑的時候
當下總是不知道該怎麼反駁
可是事後就會想著
如果當時直接回什麼話就好了XD
是不是天秤都很渴望被了解
或是獲得一點別人的同理心
但往往都是我們自己在做的事情>"<
常常被別人說
"妳好了解我喔"
但我有時候也很想被別人了解~
不想總是得到一句
"是妳自己想太多啦"
--
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