天秤是不是很渴望被了解但又覺得很難? - 天秤

Agatha avatar
By Agatha
at 2009-09-02T14:45

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=======================此心情抒發專為天秤寶寶設置======================

今日想抒發的心情是: 哀
心情背景:似乎很難被了解....
希望跟板友分享的是:跟朋友聊天後有時候感到低落~

有時候發現自己總是能扮演一個好的傾聽者

常常有人喜歡告訴我他們的心事

就算朋友的價值觀和自己不同

但對於別人的煩惱

我還是願意試著去了解他的立場

去體諒他的感受

而不會太主觀的去評論別人的事情

或是認為別人的煩惱其實沒什麼之類的

但身邊這樣的人卻似乎很少

如果和朋友透露一點煩惱的事情

他們往往很容易就把別人的困擾簡單化

或是很主觀的評論

有時候被質疑的時候

當下總是不知道該怎麼反駁

可是事後就會想著

如果當時直接回什麼話就好了XD

是不是天秤都很渴望被了解

或是獲得一點別人的同理心

但往往都是我們自己在做的事情>"<

常常被別人說

"妳好了解我喔"

但我有時候也很想被別人了解~

不想總是得到一句

"是妳自己想太多啦"

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Tags: 天秤

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Audriana avatar
By Audriana
at 2009-09-05T12:14
+1
Christine avatar
By Christine
at 2009-09-07T23:43
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By Puput
at 2009-09-08T18:41
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By Ida
at 2009-09-11T21:03
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By Wallis
at 2009-09-12T17:36
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By Regina
at 2009-09-16T10:46
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By Dora
at 2009-09-20T04:03
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By Andrew
at 2009-09-23T09:53
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By Xanthe
at 2009-09-25T23:45
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By Robert
at 2009-09-30T09:22
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By Isla
at 2009-09-30T16:50
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Donna avatar
By Donna
at 2009-10-05T13:03
+12
Linda avatar
By Linda
at 2009-10-07T11:24
+13
Jacob avatar
By Jacob
at 2009-10-10T07:24
(天秤發出一陣強烈的光芒後 消失了。)
Belly avatar
By Belly
at 2009-10-12T21:44
+1
Rae avatar
By Rae
at 2009-10-13T17:38
+15
Irma avatar
By Irma
at 2009-10-16T21:39
15,樓上不合群,哈哈
Daniel avatar
By Daniel
at 2009-10-19T16:28
+17
Emma avatar
By Emma
at 2009-10-23T02:55
+18
Skylar Davis avatar
By Skylar Davis
at 2009-10-24T07:55
+19 所以之後天秤就會選擇只聽不說了...
Hamiltion avatar
By Hamiltion
at 2009-10-25T17:14
+20
Linda avatar
By Linda
at 2009-10-27T09:11
+21 快要變成神級武器了
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By Poppy
at 2009-11-01T08:57
+21
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By Mary
at 2009-11-03T10:12
+22
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By Irma
at 2009-11-03T18:10
+23
Sierra Rose avatar
By Sierra Rose
at 2009-11-06T20:42
同感 朋友都說"最懂我的就是你"…但…誰又懂我了…
Ida avatar
By Ida
at 2009-11-07T01:31
+24
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By John
at 2009-11-08T23:49
+25
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By Oscar
at 2009-11-12T01:23
+26
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By Genevieve
at 2009-11-13T02:24
+27
Tom avatar
By Tom
at 2009-11-14T13:10
+28 大推變成只聽不說
Kama avatar
By Kama
at 2009-11-17T10:48
+25 Q_Q...
Skylar DavisLinda avatar
By Skylar DavisLinda
at 2009-11-18T09:48
不喜歡被說你想太多+1>"<
Dinah avatar
By Dinah
at 2009-11-20T18:17
+31..
Skylar DavisLinda avatar
By Skylar DavisLinda
at 2009-11-24T15:43
+32
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By Aaliyah
at 2009-11-28T12:52
+33
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By Erin
at 2009-11-29T07:13
+34
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By Iris
at 2009-11-30T18:48
+36
Connor avatar
By Connor
at 2009-12-04T04:34
+37心事誰人知啊
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By Thomas
at 2009-12-04T08:26
+38
Anthony avatar
By Anthony
at 2009-12-07T14:24
+39
Callum avatar
By Callum
at 2009-12-10T05:01
+40 這是我們的天職...安慰自己...
Joseph avatar
By Joseph
at 2009-12-12T16:30
+40 ◢▆▅▄▃崩╰(〒皿〒)╯潰▃▄▅▇◣
Franklin avatar
By Franklin
at 2009-12-16T20:11
+41 我和樓上只差幾秒
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By Ida
at 2009-12-20T07:06
+42
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By Joe
at 2009-12-21T16:36
+42
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By Jake
at 2009-12-23T01:48
+43
Megan avatar
By Megan
at 2009-12-24T12:29
太準了...我也是天秤...總能給別人同理但沒人能了解
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By Ivy
at 2009-12-29T12:16
+45
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By Lucy
at 2010-01-01T16:27
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Vanessa avatar
By Vanessa
at 2010-01-01T20:41
+47 很想被了解但又覺得根本不會有人了解或想了解..
Carol avatar
By Carol
at 2010-01-05T23:45
+48
Iris avatar
By Iris
at 2010-01-09T23:48
+49.我也想有人聽我說!!
Blanche avatar
By Blanche
at 2010-01-12T13:04
所以秤子要找秤子嗎XD
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By Bennie
at 2010-01-17T02:59
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By Ingrid
at 2010-01-18T07:52
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By Leila
at 2010-01-22T11:25
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By Carolina Franco
at 2010-01-26T00:03
+53 所以最後天秤只能獨自默默療傷...
Eartha avatar
By Eartha
at 2010-01-28T01:42
+54 這是好還是不好
Liam avatar
By Liam
at 2010-02-01T12:25
+55 樓上的想法一直想一直想陷入無窮的迴圈....
Isabella avatar
By Isabella
at 2010-02-05T22:22
+56 是阿,怎麼講都被講想太多....
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By Robert
at 2010-02-10T10:58
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By Michael
at 2010-02-20T05:25
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at 2010-02-25T01:38
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By Quanna
at 2010-03-01T03:55
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at 2010-03-04T06:25
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at 2010-03-08T22:47
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By Dinah
at 2010-03-10T02:52
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By Quanna
at 2010-03-11T09:58
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By Andrew
at 2010-03-15T05:27
+69 >///<
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at 2010-03-16T03:09
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at 2010-03-19T04:21
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at 2010-03-30T13:32
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By Yedda
at 2010-04-04T01:33
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By Cara
at 2010-04-07T16:24
+77 巧克力~@@"
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By Hedwig
at 2010-04-11T21:38
78 >"<
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at 2010-04-12T02:32
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at 2010-04-27T20:00
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By Noah
at 2010-04-28T02:10
+87 我是朋友的關老師 卻找不到我的關老師
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By Heather
at 2010-04-28T05:43
+88 唉...就是這樣嘍...
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at 2010-04-30T12:11
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Facebook 天秤 9/2 星座運勢

Zenobia avatar
By Zenobia
at 2009-09-02T07:14
愛情: 告訴你的伴侶你的想法,否則不快只會延續下去。 事業: 別向人胡亂作出承諾,他們將會藉此攻擊你。 健康: 你將會在不同的身體位置有多處的痛症。 財富: 你將會成功解決所有財政困難。 - ...

該怎麼繼續相信?

Erin avatar
By Erin
at 2009-09-02T03:37
=========================此格式為詢問愛情交往問題專用===================== (若幫人代問,請填寫當事人的資料) 1. 是否已經詳細閱讀精華區與置底文摘的文章: Y 2. 我的星座是:0221 B型魚女,上升天秤 3. 對方的星座是:1016 AB型秤男 ...

為何就是沒人追?

Thomas avatar
By Thomas
at 2009-09-02T00:00
我是高二生,天秤女。有談過幾次戀愛(不到五次),但是幾乎都是我提的……
我朋友都說我長得很可愛、頗正。
但是不知道是不是他們在安慰我 ...

請問我們還有複合機會嗎?或者要怎樣挽回他的心

Oliver avatar
By Oliver
at 2009-09-02T00:00
我是天秤o型女 對方是射手o型男,題目有點長請耐心看完!我們本來9/20及9/27要訂婚結婚因為提親當天,他媽媽只要我8字她們拿去合我男友媽媽不肯給�� ...

我跟哪個男女星座比較合

Valerie avatar
By Valerie
at 2009-09-02T00:00
我是天秤座的女生
我不知道我跟哪個男女生的星座比較好
戀愛該跟哪個男生在一起比較好呢