失戀四十四天(上) - 射手

By Freda
at 2012-06-19T01:37

Table of Contents

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應前女友要求補充

是因為某次電話中他非常不悅我的一句不耐煩的話語

所以之後才態度不佳
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繼上一篇雜亂無章我又來一篇(咦)

好啦其實只是想紓發心情跟分享一些得到的資訊

不管是失戀了失敗了收卡了戀愛了成功了生小孩(咦

希望有空的可以看看看完給我點指教

另外補充一下為什麼我要發這篇文?

因為我希望每一個受傷的人或是希望幫助其他人的人
在板上搜尋"失戀"的時候可以看到我的文章
希望可以幫助到一些需要幫助的人 :)

那麼我要開始了

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四十四天了

首先我得先說一下
我前女友並不是什麼十惡不赦萬惡淵藪罄竹難書大奸大惡之類的

相反她很好

不論是長相個性才情脾氣學歷都很好
是那種你娶回家可以幸福一輩子的那種
不過大概是我上輩子燒香的時候偷工減料

所以我失戀了

失戀了乍聽之下沒什麼大不了的
(喔也許聽起來很嚴重啦~)
不過我差點沒走出來

沒走出來的原因很多
其中一個應該是所謂禍不單行它三人行...
福無雙至一個不至...
是的
短短一個月內我經歷了
好友分離缺席送舊考試失利帳號被盜書籍遺失強迫換寢
種種麻煩的事情
而且是一週一項

加上一些雞毛蒜皮的小事
煩躁鬱悶充斥在當時的生活
加上還有期末考

不過也得感謝這些煩心的事
讓我除了剛開始的錯愕震驚還有短暫平靜後
六月初才開始有時間跟心情胡思亂想

那麼

我想了什麼?

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是的這就是我接下來要講的
分手後情侶的某方的心理轉變

現在我繼續

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我覺得好不甘心
為什麼我這麼愛她
他還是堅持要走
而且走的很突然
(儘管我有預感會走到這了 *1)

我覺得好不公平
為什麼我對他這麼好
她可以走的理所當然毫不留戀
而且居然是她提分手

我想報復也無從報復
(應該是我也不太想報復)
我想生氣好像也無從氣起
我想訴說周邊沒有人可以聽

是的四面楚歌(應該是四面閃光)孤立無援
"對方有權提分手孤臣無力可回天"那種感覺

也就是不甘不平然後獨愴然而涕下的感覺

而且是日復一日的增加

因為我真的很愛她是用盡全力的愛

(說到這我要另外感謝這段時間陪我的人還有我生就極為峱的性格)
(也不對應該說是希望好聚好散大家都好有風度的離開的想法)

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"然後呢?"

"有試著挽回嗎?"

"不能當情人總可以當朋友吧?"
---(如果還有其他問題歡迎推文提出我再補)

然後在那種全世界都不需要你的感覺中
我要感謝我的學長還有一位不願具名的網友
當然看過的電影書籍文章也是功臣
(有需要者可推文或站內信電影我上篇有寫過了)
所以我覺得我走出來了
所以我敢發這兩篇文章

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"有試著挽回嗎?"
有分手的那天我們談了很久
其實我也忘了談了什麼(保護性機制把很多記憶都刪除了)
她去意甚絕

是的在這邊我要提醒各位射眷
如果射手座主動說要離開
就算你很痛你很傷你很悲
請你不要嘗試拉住他

沒有意義
是的沒有太大的意義
除非這種拉扯中你可以獲得一點點的慰藉
否則請珍惜你的自尊

"有人說過世上最骯髒的莫過於自尊心
這一刻我突然意識到即使骯髒餘下的一生
我也需要這自尊心的如影相伴" <<失戀33天>>

你還需要自尊跟你共度一生不要浪費輕賤於它

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"不能當情人總可以當朋友吧?"

我試過了
原本我百思不得其解
為什麼他越來越冷淡越來越不耐煩

因為當初他曾問過
"如果我們之後當不回朋友怎麼辦"
我記得我笑著回答
"不會發生那種事的我會讓我們還是朋友"
當然也有可能記錯原話但大意是這樣(請原諒我的保護機制...)

直到我今天看了某篇文章

"
【愛情研究室】讓我們重新開始？談分手後友誼的可能性
http://www.womany.net/read/article/1458
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是的原來是因為我一直放不下
當然也許是內文提到的其他可能
不過我釋懷了
不管有沒有機會
我盡過力即使沒有得到利但問心無愧我有理

無所謂
當然可能我今天發了之後更不可能了~XD
但又如何?

"如果他真的沒有那麼重要
他說什麼想什麼又如何?" by 學長

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我覺得這段話說的很好

"我要你相信溫暖，美好，信任，尊嚴，堅強這些老掉牙的字眼。
我不要你頹廢，空虛，迷茫，糟踐自己，傷害別人。
我不要你把自己處理得一團糟。
節制自己的感情並且珍惜它，明白這種感情不是任何人都能要。"

<<如果你已經二十歲了，別再孩子氣了 - 李開復>>
http://angiehu.pixnet.net/blog/post/31526050

是的珍惜自己的感情不要把自己處理得一團糟
就算你並不特別但對於你自己來說
還有愛你的人關心你的人以及你自己

都是很重要的

請照顧好自己

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下篇文章我會把我這段時間接受到的學習到的感受到的

整理出來

一樣請大家不吝賜教

然後本篇之後只針對推文回應

不用給我拍拍謝謝大家~

跟我做學術交流比較實在一點~XD

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Tags: 射手戀愛

All Comments

By Dorothy
at 2012-06-24T00:40

分手後,不強迫自己做什麼事情

By Jacky
at 2012-06-27T06:32

就是早睡(晚上11點上床),早起(8點起床)
心情會慢慢變好,幸福會自然找上門來

By Iris
at 2012-06-29T07:24

0.0/報到

By Necoo
at 2012-07-02T14:52

其實分手後最重要的是調整好自己!!

By Hardy
at 2012-07-05T21:54

說的容易做得難，下一個會更好!!

By Necoo
at 2012-07-10T20:12

太酷了

By Hardy
at 2012-07-12T19:12

與其免強彼此到不如瀟灑結束一切給雙方留下美好的回憶

By Hedwig
at 2012-07-15T10:40

酷斃了！

By Mason
at 2012-07-19T04:16

不拍拍~那抱一個好了(抱

By Olivia
at 2012-07-20T03:12

文筆真好

By James
at 2012-07-24T12:38

分手只是一個過程而已.在未來的某一天,你會突然發現,你不

By Agatha
at 2012-07-28T18:50

是只有失去,你必定獲得了些什麼.這會讓你成長成熟的 :)

By Quanna
at 2012-07-30T18:46

就是因為經歷了這些,你會更珍惜一些真正重要的東西,真正對

By Audriana
at 2012-08-03T18:58

你好的人,真正疼你的人.你長大了,更成熟的,可以保護守護你

By James
at 2012-08-04T05:37

對你重要的人.總有一天你會懂得,分手並不只有痛而已,你一

By Ula
at 2012-08-08T23:43

定也學到了些什麼,讓你的人生和別人不同,更完美!

By Kelly
at 2012-08-13T09:07

赫然發現,我好像講得太深了@@.現在就先把自己照顧好吧!

By Candice
at 2012-08-15T14:15

就像失戀33天內講的:分手後,你的要死要活,與對方已經全然

By Tom
at 2012-08-20T13:20

無關.她不想與你同行,但你還有你的人生要過,誰說分手後人

By Olive
at 2012-08-21T08:48

生不能更精采?! 你要讓自己過得更好,而不是浪費時間在不愛

By Rebecca
at 2012-08-22T00:33

你的人身上.

By Tom
at 2012-08-24T07:43

分手還是恨射手座會比較好至少會比較快脫離

By Elvira
at 2012-08-27T16:15

好吧我原諒你的保護機制(茶) ((偷抱))

By Zora
at 2012-08-29T13:06

帠\他有什麼苦衷是你沒辦法知道的阿
或是他是否有什麼一定要離開你的問題

By Olive
at 2012-09-01T01:11

祝福你囉~

By Rachel
at 2012-09-01T21:06

我的保護機制更強烈,直接遺忘那個人的所有事 XD

By Suhail Hany
at 2012-09-04T07:59

12...\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/
恭喜你最後到#1EPQmFlw 跟天使說個話吧

By Rachel
at 2012-09-08T12:51

推

By Mary
at 2012-09-10T00:26

By Daph Bay
at 2012-09-13T23:55

o_o

By Edwina
at 2012-09-18T01:37

yes!

By Tom
at 2012-09-19T16:04

恩好

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at 2012-09-21T18:34

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at 2012-09-25T09:29

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at 2012-09-26T22:12

Orz

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at 2012-09-28T03:51

._./

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at 2012-09-29T07:10

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at 2012-09-30T16:05

Q_Q/

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at 2012-10-05T02:49

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at 2012-10-07T07:32

orz

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at 2012-10-07T23:52

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at 2012-10-12T02:37

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at 2012-10-12T14:52

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at 2012-10-12T21:21

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at 2012-10-15T13:00

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at 2012-10-18T02:20

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at 2012-10-19T16:35

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at 2012-10-20T03:42

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at 2012-10-20T19:22

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at 2012-10-23T06:34

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at 2012-10-27T17:07

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at 2012-10-31T15:11

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at 2012-11-04T07:45

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at 2012-11-07T04:46

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at 2012-11-09T22:18

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at 2012-11-13T07:10

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at 2012-11-16T10:31

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at 2012-11-20T09:05

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at 2012-11-20T14:38

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at 2012-11-21T18:49

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at 2012-11-24T21:05

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at 2012-11-26T11:41

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at 2012-11-26T23:29

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at 2012-12-01T06:32

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at 2012-12-02T03:37

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at 2012-12-03T22:34

簽到~ 終於... ... \(^ω^)/

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at 2012-12-04T12:36

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at 2012-12-05T06:13

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at 2012-12-07T06:21

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at 2012-12-07T07:33

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at 2012-12-07T12:06

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at 2012-12-08T07:05

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at 2012-12-09T02:24

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at 2012-12-09T05:51

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at 2012-12-09T21:54

難死了~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

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at 2012-12-10T20:39

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at 2012-12-13T02:35

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at 2012-12-13T04:17

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at 2012-12-15T11:12

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at 2012-12-17T19:53

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at 2012-12-22T17:11

◢▆▅▄▃崩╰(〒皿〒)╯潰▃▄▅▇◣
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at 2012-12-23T06:52

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at 2012-12-25T18:41

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at 2012-12-26T00:54

到囉

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at 2012-12-30T12:01

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at 2013-01-02T16:55

簽到

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at 2013-01-06T15:10

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at 2013-01-08T14:41

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at 2013-01-10T15:00

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at 2013-01-14T00:03

我來到這裡找鬥士........ 結果是要找失戀四十四天＝＝

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at 2013-01-15T11:59

搞錯關鍵過門而不得入 XDDDDDDDDD

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at 2013-01-16T23:54

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at 2013-01-17T02:41

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at 2013-01-21T02:52

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at 2013-01-23T00:33

\@@/

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at 2013-01-25T19:54

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at 2013-01-26T16:01

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at 2013-01-31T08:29

算好找~ 簽到

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at 2013-02-04T08:19

推文....

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at 2013-02-05T10:59

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at 2013-02-07T02:43

簽到....終於阿@@

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at 2013-02-11T14:41

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at 2013-02-16T07:36

報到 :)

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at 2013-02-19T19:05

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at 2013-02-21T17:22

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at 2013-02-22T19:51

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at 2013-02-22T21:57

終於~~XD

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at 2013-02-26T01:07

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at 2013-03-02T05:48

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at 2013-03-05T13:19

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at 2013-03-06T10:43

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at 2013-03-09T14:57

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at 2013-03-11T03:50

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at 2013-03-14T10:38

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at 2013-03-18T15:46

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at 2013-03-22T03:45

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at 2013-03-25T16:55

囧........簽到

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at 2013-03-29T22:01

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at 2013-04-03T21:34

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at 2013-04-06T18:52

簽到= =

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at 2013-04-09T03:40

簽到，補簽前關~~

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at 2013-04-10T02:33

YA~簽~~只是圖真的很小

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at 2013-04-14T11:40

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at 2013-04-15T05:42

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at 2013-04-17T18:43

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at 2013-04-22T14:41

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at 2013-04-24T23:56

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at 2013-04-25T10:10

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at 2013-04-27T18:44

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at 2013-04-30T22:58

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at 2013-05-05T01:45

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at 2013-05-07T15:12

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at 2013-05-08T10:45

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at 2013-05-13T04:57

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at 2013-05-16T01:01

所以我要結束了!!??

By Damian
at 2013-05-18T22:30

-------------再次提醒本關不是結尾關----------------

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at 2013-05-20T07:45

我沒看過這個....超難的

By Tristan Cohan
at 2013-05-24T15:37

簽到..好難

By Kristin
at 2013-05-26T07:46

完全找錯方向...找到漫畫去了 QQ
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at 2013-05-28T21:09

好難= = 簽到囉上一關權限不足

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at 2013-05-29T15:57

簽到！

By Anthony
at 2013-05-31T07:39

圖片好難簽到 :'(

By Agatha
at 2013-06-04T09:21

哀~來到這只有深深無奈

By Madame
at 2013-06-06T11:11

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at 2013-06-09T03:22

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at 2013-06-10T20:42

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at 2013-06-12T21:20

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at 2013-06-13T10:55

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By Todd Johnson
at 2013-06-15T05:25

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By Frederica
at 2013-06-16T20:30

簽到上一關movie版權限不足無法簽到~

By Bennie
at 2013-06-16T22:09

簽到囉~~

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at 2013-06-21T15:17

(簽名)

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at 2013-06-26T11:15

簽到這關用暴力會慘T T

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at 2013-06-28T18:13

簽到!!!

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at 2013-07-01T19:25

報告T^T

By Annie
at 2013-07-04T08:50

簽到!

By Olga
at 2013-07-05T02:05

路線一插花

By Blanche
at 2013-07-07T12:44

這題也太難...完全沒看過囧

By Bennie
at 2013-07-07T18:25

簽到誇張欸!!!聖鬥士星矢變成射手是怎樣= =

By Freda
at 2013-07-11T16:48

簽到!

By Dinah
at 2013-07-12T11:13

喔耶找到了!!簽到!!

By Charlie
at 2013-07-17T10:43

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By Ida
at 2013-07-20T18:37

簽到。

By Jacky
at 2013-07-24T00:53

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By Tracy
at 2013-07-28T12:21

天哪～這是哪部卡通我都不知道

By Connor
at 2013-07-30T00:38

終於來簽到啦!

By Olive
at 2013-07-30T02:34

簽到!!

By Andy
at 2013-07-31T03:28

破!!

By Ursula
at 2013-08-02T16:41

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By Caitlin
at 2013-08-04T16:46

簽~~~繼續衝啊~~~

By Lydia
at 2013-08-07T16:51

<<大天使公告>>這一篇不是最後一篇喔 XDDDDD

By Robert
at 2013-08-12T13:39

路過簽到~

By Hamiltion
at 2013-08-14T09:40

簽到！關雅典娜什麼事？

By Genevieve
at 2013-08-19T07:59

簽到~

By Ethan
at 2013-08-20T18:07

為什麼...簽到...

By Jacob
at 2013-08-22T18:19

簽到@@!

By Charlotte
at 2013-08-25T23:57

簽到~

By Catherine
at 2013-08-26T15:12

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By Madame
at 2013-08-28T16:27

簽到阿!!!!

By Ophelia
at 2013-08-30T22:11

亂入簽圖太小了啦!!

By Lily
at 2013-09-02T13:02

簽到

By Margaret
at 2013-09-06T21:03

簽到!!!

By Anthony
at 2013-09-08T02:37

簽到~yap~開心,總算在時間內快完成了!感謝天使們:")

By Brianna
at 2013-09-11T16:26

報到~~~

By Kelly
at 2013-09-12T22:10

簽到

By Dora
at 2013-09-13T19:19

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By Faithe
at 2013-09-14T18:35

簽到XD 一開始看到小孩還以為是媽寶XD

By Yuri
at 2013-09-19T05:40

簽到

By Franklin
at 2013-09-23T09:35

好家在我有看懂推文...報到喔~

By Annie
at 2013-09-25T07:05

簽到~~

By Carol
at 2013-09-26T04:52

簽到

By Michael
at 2013-10-01T00:37

路線三來玩推

By Delia
at 2013-10-01T03:42

簽到!!!!

By Rebecca
at 2013-10-04T22:48

哇~~找到了!!!

By Eden
at 2013-10-06T07:24

簽到

By Skylar DavisLinda
at 2013-10-07T09:13

推

By Lauren
at 2013-10-09T09:59

哈，中了!!! 簽到 ^^

By Quanna
at 2013-10-11T16:14

簽

By Todd Johnson
at 2013-10-15T21:38

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By David
at 2013-10-16T10:44

I get you!!!!簽到!看圖看到眼睛快脫窗

By Iris
at 2013-10-18T21:18

簽到

By Ethan
at 2013-10-23T07:56

為什麼最後一關是讓我痛徹心扉多年的射手座Q_Q

By Poppy
at 2013-10-28T03:49

跑去星座板難怪找不到Orz

By Edwina
at 2013-10-29T21:33

簽到~

By Agatha
at 2013-11-02T15:47

我沒看過漫畫啦哭

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