我傷了水平男的心 - 水瓶

By Bennie
at 2012-07-11T14:04
at 2012-07-11T14:04
Table of Contents
水瓶男和我是經由朋友介紹
我們從介紹到決定交往到前天分手前
水瓶男天天都非常照顧我
不但常常對我噓寒問暖
出去花費也都常常是他請我
(雖然我也會常常找機會回送)
從來沒有跟我大聲罵過
每天都很努力賺錢
也勾勒出很多前景(買房、生小孩等等)
我們當然平常會有很多親密接觸(像親吻、抱抱、普通摸摸)
瓶男平常真的都對我很好
有事他都會第一時間幫我很多
但他有時候講話很毒(比如說他曾經說過我長得不好看...
或是嘲笑別人不夠男子氣概等等...
或是叫我不要聽朋友說我可愛就相信的那種話...)
我就說他講話不應該會傷到別人
我提醒了很多次類似講話會傷人或講話很沒氣質這種話要多注意....
也曾經好幾次為了這種事情吵架過..
也有提到要分手~但終究沒分成
有一天他的朋友夫婦提議要一起到中部遊玩過夜
我說我要跟大嫂一起睡
但他說人家夫婦有生孩子壓力要一起睡
叫我跟他一起睡但可以分床睡
我堅持不肯
(因為我覺得女生還沒有結婚就跟男生過夜很奇怪..)
後來他就說
"更過分的事情我們都做過了~~住在同一間房有甚麼關係??我又不會對你怎麼樣"
(我相信這句話是真的~~因為他平常也都很守規矩)
但是這句話就像踩到我的地雷
讓我覺得對我的人格尊嚴有很大的貶低
我從他這句話感受到他是不是因為我平常有讓他越界(普通摸摸..)所以被他輕視了
把我看成是很廉價的女人
後來即使他道歉很多次(他說他只是情侶間的調笑~不知道我會這麼在意)
但我還是大爆炸
因為我覺得他講話傷人這一點一直都沒有改
這次我堅決要分手
當天任憑他再怎麼挽留我都不願意回頭了
現在分手兩天了
我雖然還是很氣他講話傷人(我覺得他這點真的很難改...)
但是我的心有點痛痛的
我睡不著吃不好精神不佳
想著他的好
卻又害怕復合只是這種無止盡的痛苦循環再重複
(而且他的家人也是這種講話很直很傷人的個性)
我也很害怕以後嫁到他們家會不會也會很痛苦很傷心
我問過我的朋友
我的朋友覺得我的個性和他很不合
(因為他講話傷人但是我會講話讓大家開心會察覺氣氛)
都勸我不要復合
我不知道我該怎麼辦
雖然我不認識各位鄉民
但是很想聽聽大家的看法
拜託大家給我一些方向好嗎??
謝謝大家
--
我們從介紹到決定交往到前天分手前
水瓶男天天都非常照顧我
不但常常對我噓寒問暖
出去花費也都常常是他請我
(雖然我也會常常找機會回送)
從來沒有跟我大聲罵過
每天都很努力賺錢
也勾勒出很多前景(買房、生小孩等等)
我們當然平常會有很多親密接觸(像親吻、抱抱、普通摸摸)
瓶男平常真的都對我很好
有事他都會第一時間幫我很多
但他有時候講話很毒(比如說他曾經說過我長得不好看...
或是嘲笑別人不夠男子氣概等等...
或是叫我不要聽朋友說我可愛就相信的那種話...)
我就說他講話不應該會傷到別人
我提醒了很多次類似講話會傷人或講話很沒氣質這種話要多注意....
也曾經好幾次為了這種事情吵架過..
也有提到要分手~但終究沒分成
有一天他的朋友夫婦提議要一起到中部遊玩過夜
我說我要跟大嫂一起睡
但他說人家夫婦有生孩子壓力要一起睡
叫我跟他一起睡但可以分床睡
我堅持不肯
(因為我覺得女生還沒有結婚就跟男生過夜很奇怪..)
後來他就說
"更過分的事情我們都做過了~~住在同一間房有甚麼關係??我又不會對你怎麼樣"
(我相信這句話是真的~~因為他平常也都很守規矩)
但是這句話就像踩到我的地雷
讓我覺得對我的人格尊嚴有很大的貶低
我從他這句話感受到他是不是因為我平常有讓他越界(普通摸摸..)所以被他輕視了
把我看成是很廉價的女人
後來即使他道歉很多次(他說他只是情侶間的調笑~不知道我會這麼在意)
但我還是大爆炸
因為我覺得他講話傷人這一點一直都沒有改
這次我堅決要分手
當天任憑他再怎麼挽留我都不願意回頭了
現在分手兩天了
我雖然還是很氣他講話傷人(我覺得他這點真的很難改...)
但是我的心有點痛痛的
我睡不著吃不好精神不佳
想著他的好
卻又害怕復合只是這種無止盡的痛苦循環再重複
(而且他的家人也是這種講話很直很傷人的個性)
我也很害怕以後嫁到他們家會不會也會很痛苦很傷心
我問過我的朋友
我的朋友覺得我的個性和他很不合
(因為他講話傷人但是我會講話讓大家開心會察覺氣氛)
都勸我不要復合
我不知道我該怎麼辦
雖然我不認識各位鄉民
但是很想聽聽大家的看法
拜託大家給我一些方向好嗎??
謝謝大家
--
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