曖昧之後消失 - 戀愛
By Jacob
at 2011-02-11T09:19
at 2011-02-11T09:19
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我的星座或生日:喵
瓶版早:D
我是愛樂分久久久 哈哈
最近養成每天上瓶版的習慣
但說不定這是最後幾次上來了。
(淡淡的哀桑)
和瓶男互動曖昧了三個月
傳簡訊 吃飯 看電影 請客 電話 去他家 凌晨在我家樓下
(恩 有興趣可以看我之前的文章XD)
最近因為他生日所以送他禮物
我想聰明的他一定知道
我這麼做大概是對他有意思。
況且我自己的回應其實我知道蠻熱情的
其中當然也經歷過所謂的忽冷忽熱
熱的時候非常的熱 冷的時候其實還是有點餘溫
只是變得有點涼而已
但是送完他禮物之後
他開始好像在消失
雖然他事後有跟我說謝謝 說很開心
以往我會知道這種情況 因為這是我們彼此之間的默契
但在他收到禮物之後其實我有偷偷消失一下
不過不是故意的 大概才一天
我只是因為跟朋友出去沒上網而已
也是因為打工太累懶得上
後來也把FB關掉(因為最近要大考) 怕會分心
但是
這次不一樣 他回去軍營什麼也沒說
以往總是在來個離別簡訊 或是在FB昭告天下他要回去了
或者我知道他要回去我會傳給他 他也會在同一時間跟以往一樣在回傳
這次什麼都沒留下
跟以往一樣的我
也知道他要回去傳了封簡訊給他
他還是沒回。
這很反常。
這是我認識他到現在第一次真正找他找不到
真正的消失。
以往我不管多晚傳他一定會回的
晚回也會說聲抱歉 不然就是報備現在自己在幹嘛
==================小劇場推理=================
不知道為什麼曖昧到現在 他會搞消失
是因為發現我好像對他有意思了嗎?
(可是這很怪 明明是一開始他先做一些類似追的動作)
不知道什麼原因瓶男縮了........
1. 曖昧完,發現對方認真了,自己還不想定下來,索性冷淡處理。
2. 自己沒自信,也是喜歡對方,只是目前的狀況不適合談戀愛
我在準備大考,他當兵,見面時間不多,索性沒自信的冷淡。
是因為覺得自己沒有時間跟能力談好感情嗎?
3. 他希望我好好準備考試不讓我分心,所以自己先消失先。
他有說上次請我客之後當然就是要上阿,不然對不起他XD
4. 他對我沒感覺。對我好只是無來由的。每天跟我傳簡訊只是因為寂寞。
想找人抒發情緒,因為沒感覺所以消失。
(那我們前幾個月都玩假的?)
我目前只能想到這些 喜歡卻沒自信在一起----第一種
喜歡但是希望我先把大考考完在說-----第二種
突然意識自己好像也喜歡我,不知道怎麼處理感覺-----第三種
曖昧不想定下來,只想好好當兵,但發現我認真了-----第四種
從頭到尾都是我自己在自作多情,他只是需要一個朋友--五
怕曖昧關係變了,還不想在一起。------六
我知道我現在唯一能做的就是趕快調整心情
靜下來讀書
但我以為他會在這段時間一樣陪在我身邊
之前我在準備作品忙到昏天暗地的時候
撐下去都是因為靠著他每天一封簡訊的關心
其實我是不想打破關係
雖然我很想跟他定下來 但是怕他有壓力也不敢做太多
只是不知道他是怎麼想
他會不會覺得其實是我想跟他告白之類的
其實沒有 我還是希望維持這樣的良好關係
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但他消失中 我是不是也應該用光速離開他的世界?
還是保持不變的態度 但是對他有點冷淡這樣?
謝謝大家耐心看完
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