牛牛的傷害值…很高嗎…【附加請 - 金牛

By Regina
at 2015-07-15T20:03
at 2015-07-15T20:03
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我是牛女,最近和男友發生了一點事…
在溝通、爭吵的時候…我真的塞了滿滿的話在心底想宣洩出來
可是,很多想講的事實,都會帶有傷害性
於是…我只能選擇壓在心底,不說
因為我講的話,並不能改變什麼
但卻能傷害到他
我不想傷害他…永遠都不想
可是總在最後才發現…他受傷了
因為通訊軟體,我們無法知道對方真實的心情或語氣
所以那些傷害的言語,更是無法讓他明白,其實我是很難過的
曾經,我爸帶著無奈對我說:
『你都不知道,你講出來的話有多傷人』
那一刻,其實我是有害怕的…害怕我是真的傷害到我親近的人,害怕我在賭氣難過的時候
,那些言語是尖酸刻薄的…
【想問牛牛們】
牛…真的說話很傷人嗎?
可是,我只是覺得,我把事實、我的想法講出來了啊…
因為在親近的人面前,才會展現真正的自己
可是,這樣會更容易傷到對方嗎?
謝謝牛牛( 鞠躬
--
Sent from my Android
--
在溝通、爭吵的時候…我真的塞了滿滿的話在心底想宣洩出來
可是,很多想講的事實,都會帶有傷害性
於是…我只能選擇壓在心底,不說
因為我講的話,並不能改變什麼
但卻能傷害到他
我不想傷害他…永遠都不想
可是總在最後才發現…他受傷了
因為通訊軟體,我們無法知道對方真實的心情或語氣
所以那些傷害的言語,更是無法讓他明白,其實我是很難過的
曾經,我爸帶著無奈對我說:
『你都不知道,你講出來的話有多傷人』
那一刻,其實我是有害怕的…害怕我是真的傷害到我親近的人,害怕我在賭氣難過的時候
,那些言語是尖酸刻薄的…
【想問牛牛們】
牛…真的說話很傷人嗎?
可是,我只是覺得,我把事實、我的想法講出來了啊…
因為在親近的人面前,才會展現真正的自己
可是,這樣會更容易傷到對方嗎?
謝謝牛牛( 鞠躬
--
Sent from my Android
--
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