獅女態度冷淡 - 獅子

By Odelette
at 2017-10-15T15:59
at 2017-10-15T15:59
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大家好 小弟天秤
跟獅女遠距一年左右(高雄 台北)
爬過版上文 大貓該有的性格她都有(黏人、控制慾強、沒安全感、易怒等等)
剛在一起的時候她的要求我都盡量答應(訊息要馬上回、每天講電話視訊兩個小時)
大家也知道天秤就是個很懶的星座 沒重要的事情訊息都回得很慢
可是為了她我能改變的都改了、也讓她有足夠的安全感
因為她身體不好 可是又很愛去夜店玩、跑趴 每次一喝都要喝到茫
為了這件事也吵過好幾次架
因為我覺得那種地方男生單純去放鬆的實在少之又少
我不在她身邊 她一個人去喝到茫很危險
有幾次她跑趴的時候喝醉打給我 我就聽到男的在對她毛手毛腳、想把她拉到樓梯間去
前前後後吵架吵了三四次,也冷戰了三四次(天秤不喜歡吵架,而且我知道她吵架
說出來的話都很傷人,所以我都希望先好好冷靜一下再溝通)
最近因為工作外派到大陸,吵架的頻率更高
另外她又很常說謊(有時候跟前男友出去,不過她都跟我說沒什麼 就只是朋友、有時候
傳訊息跟我說她睡了 結果又跑出去玩,導致我很沒安全感)
九月中的時候吵了一次假,冷戰了兩個星期,甚至談到要分手
兩人間訊息也傳了很多告別文之類的
但我還是放不太下(跟她姊姊打聽其實她心裡也還有我),有想挽回的意思
可是她說她不想再過遠距離的生活,需要我的時候我不在
甚至叫我辭掉工作去台北陪她
我也跟她說我現在認真賺錢都是為了給她過更好的生活
也跟她說等我明年升官後就娶她,也把她爸媽接到高雄一起住
不過她也聽不進去,只回我說隨便一個女人都可以跟我過下去
又不是要非她不可,也不想為了我離開現在的生活圈
十月初回去她還有約我見面幫我過生日,還花蠻多時間挑了一個不便宜的生日禮物
當天吃飯語氣就跟在一起的時候都一樣,擁抱、親嘴也都有
但隔天在傳訊息給她的時候又變得冷淡、過很久才回或已讀不回
這幾天她一個男性朋友分手,一通電話她就去陪他三個小時
我在家等他三小時打給她,講沒幾句就說她累了 想睡覺
要跟她好好溝通她不是回不知道 不然就是不想講
我問她是不是不要我再打擾她了 她也不講明,只說不知道
想請問各位大貓她這個反應到底是怎樣?是真的不愛了嗎?
(她的很多行為大概鄉民都會覺得不如趕快放生,但是我覺得既然在一起了
,能讓她改變更好的話我能幫的話就盡量幫,畢竟是我愛的人,所以想聽聽
各位大貓的意見,畢竟這個樣子我也很累,她跑出去玩,有時候我隔天要上班
還是等到三四點她平安到家我才睡。如果她真的不愛的話,我也就不要再勉強了)
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