男性好友v.s男朋友 - 天秤

By Victoria
at 2012-01-05T19:08
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=========================此格式為詢問愛情交往問題專用=====================
(若幫人代問,請填寫當事人的資料)
1. 是否已經詳細閱讀精華區與置底文摘的文章:
2. 我的星座是:天蠍座
3. 對方的星座是:天秤女
4. 自己的個性 (請以20字內簡短敘述自己的個性) :開朗、時而安靜時而瘋狂、體貼
5. 問題發生的背景:
各位大大,我真的需要幫忙了,
大家都知道,天蠍座的多疑,我的女友在我們進大學時,
因為一個班上男生的一句話:「我可以跟妳當談心的朋友嗎?」
她答應了!之後會不定時出去談心,約出去走走,在兩個月前,
那男生劈腿喜歡上我女友,我女友跟他說:「我也喜歡你阿!但是是朋友的喜歡」
這件事其實我一直都不知道,是之後我有次擔心到跟我女友講「我擔心他愛上妳」
我女友才把整件事告訴我,前後其實我心裡很掙扎,相信我天秤女不會違背自己,
知道自己在做什麼....
這幾天,那男生跟她自己的女友分手了,跟我的女友卻變成要好的朋友,
談心、晚上趁夜深人靜,我不知道的時候出去走,
還跟那男生說她很多話想跟他說,
有時會傳簡訊...男生會說很想她,我女友也會稱他親愛的...
一切的一切都我不知情,
她不像我坦白...而且都是趁我不在時這麼做,
我也不想想太多....
因為她曾跟我說:「以前我跟他心靈契合,但是她覺得現在抓不到我的靈魂..」
還說我不了解她...
才交往四個月...我多少了解...但是我有時不會說太明
因為這樣,我很多事都記下來,知道自己的缺點。
我也跟天秤女談過說:「妳怎可以叫他親愛的,還打簡訊打抱一個」
她就跟我說:「我跟他真的只是好朋友,因為他的家庭背景跟我很像,
有時要談什麼也很好談,加上因為他跟我說一些他跟那個女友的事後,
她反省之前的戀情,也因為他更愛你,我會跟他協調我們的事,他會告訴我
怎麼做比較好,才能增進感情,他就像我爸爸一樣......」
這些話我該相信嗎?
前幾天晚上那男生又約她出去
說要走走...
但是...我之前說要跟我女友去走走
她回我說 我最討厭半夜去散步!!!
到底是怎樣?
感覺那男生已經走進她心裡,我卻被隔絕在外...
感覺他們才是情侶..我卻是個干涉他們的人
我很傷心...
有點想放棄
但她解釋完還跟我說他做了繪本給我...沒辦法期末考考前趕完...
她很累..熬夜做好久...
我很混亂
感覺我越愛她 她越逃離!
6. 爬完置底文摘後,仍想問的是:
1.天秤女可以跟一個男性友人好到談心?
甚至可以稱他親愛的、還打簡訊打親密話語抱一個..還會擔心他,
跟我卻無法...
2.她是不是已經開始慢慢拋棄我了?
3.我該如何做才能讓她重視我?
希望大大幫我....
昨天我跟女友談 說我要離開...
她才猛解釋...
但得知她時常這樣跟那男生出去談心散步,卻討厭我跟她去散步
以及許多跟他的事...都是背著我做的,從那次之後不坦白了...
很讓我疑惑 傷心 絕望
我沒辦法忍受太多..
希望天秤女們給我個真正的答案!
--
(若幫人代問,請填寫當事人的資料)
1. 是否已經詳細閱讀精華區與置底文摘的文章:
2. 我的星座是:天蠍座
3. 對方的星座是:天秤女
4. 自己的個性 (請以20字內簡短敘述自己的個性) :開朗、時而安靜時而瘋狂、體貼
5. 問題發生的背景:
各位大大,我真的需要幫忙了,
大家都知道,天蠍座的多疑,我的女友在我們進大學時,
因為一個班上男生的一句話:「我可以跟妳當談心的朋友嗎?」
她答應了!之後會不定時出去談心,約出去走走,在兩個月前,
那男生劈腿喜歡上我女友,我女友跟他說:「我也喜歡你阿!但是是朋友的喜歡」
這件事其實我一直都不知道,是之後我有次擔心到跟我女友講「我擔心他愛上妳」
我女友才把整件事告訴我,前後其實我心裡很掙扎,相信我天秤女不會違背自己,
知道自己在做什麼....
這幾天,那男生跟她自己的女友分手了,跟我的女友卻變成要好的朋友,
談心、晚上趁夜深人靜,我不知道的時候出去走,
還跟那男生說她很多話想跟他說,
有時會傳簡訊...男生會說很想她,我女友也會稱他親愛的...
一切的一切都我不知情,
她不像我坦白...而且都是趁我不在時這麼做,
我也不想想太多....
因為她曾跟我說:「以前我跟他心靈契合,但是她覺得現在抓不到我的靈魂..」
還說我不了解她...
才交往四個月...我多少了解...但是我有時不會說太明
因為這樣,我很多事都記下來,知道自己的缺點。
我也跟天秤女談過說:「妳怎可以叫他親愛的,還打簡訊打抱一個」
她就跟我說:「我跟他真的只是好朋友,因為他的家庭背景跟我很像,
有時要談什麼也很好談,加上因為他跟我說一些他跟那個女友的事後,
她反省之前的戀情,也因為他更愛你,我會跟他協調我們的事,他會告訴我
怎麼做比較好,才能增進感情,他就像我爸爸一樣......」
這些話我該相信嗎?
前幾天晚上那男生又約她出去
說要走走...
但是...我之前說要跟我女友去走走
她回我說 我最討厭半夜去散步!!!
到底是怎樣?
感覺那男生已經走進她心裡,我卻被隔絕在外...
感覺他們才是情侶..我卻是個干涉他們的人
我很傷心...
有點想放棄
但她解釋完還跟我說他做了繪本給我...沒辦法期末考考前趕完...
她很累..熬夜做好久...
我很混亂
感覺我越愛她 她越逃離!
6. 爬完置底文摘後,仍想問的是:
1.天秤女可以跟一個男性友人好到談心?
甚至可以稱他親愛的、還打簡訊打親密話語抱一個..還會擔心他,
跟我卻無法...
2.她是不是已經開始慢慢拋棄我了?
3.我該如何做才能讓她重視我?
希望大大幫我....
昨天我跟女友談 說我要離開...
她才猛解釋...
但得知她時常這樣跟那男生出去談心散步,卻討厭我跟她去散步
以及許多跟他的事...都是背著我做的,從那次之後不坦白了...
很讓我疑惑 傷心 絕望
我沒辦法忍受太多..
希望天秤女們給我個真正的答案!
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