被分手了,想釐清一些想法。 - 天蠍
By Lydia
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: 求你,現在的你,千萬不要馬上挽回,你沒找到原因,你們只會更失控的。。。
情況描述: 蠍男說分手有很多原因,要我走後才要告訴我,本來我堅持不走,
後來想通了我跟他說: 對不起,我之前太掌控你,不懂尊重你,這是你
的房間,應該走的人是我,不是你,你回來住吧!(他跑去住朋友家)
昨天他跟朋友一起回來,還我一些物品,我寫了一封信,內容大概是:在愛情裡,
我是個不懂尊重人的屁孩,藉哭鬧、掌控來自以為的愛著你,謝謝你對我的容忍和
教導,讓我學會剪腳趾甲(Q_Q我自己剪會剪到凍甲)。我自以為是非分明的講求對錯,
那些面子、賭氣、道歉,在失去你後,都變成了屁,人總要失去珍貴東西後,才懂得
自己的愚蠢,你讓我學會好多事情,為了向你展現我真的有成長,我尊重你的決定,
對不起讓你忍無可忍,請你原諒我吧!若有天你想起我,別忘了也有人正在想你喔^^
最愛你的OOO....
這封信我想當面念給他聽的,好好跟他反省,但他趕著要走,堅持要我放著就好,
所以我也不知道他有沒有看,但我真的很想讓他知道我的想法,所以就追上他,
跟他說讓我講最後幾句話!!!當下思緒很亂,沒法好好表達信的內容Q_Q 大概有講到
掌控、對不起、謝謝你的容忍,他邊聽邊說:已經三句了,你要走了嗎?
重點來了!!!我問他:好~我要走了,那你要跟我說那些原因了嗎?
他回我:原因太多了~回去用FB再跟你說,然後他就跟朋友走了= =
所以我還是不知道原因,之後他一直沒傳訊息來,我便傳簡訊給他:給我你的原因,
我想冷靜思考一下。= =但他到現來還是沒傳任何訊息過來...
所以他的確切原因還是沒下文,但我自己反省下來,歸結出兩點原因:不懂尊重、糾結
邏輯(><我有去BG版看E大的文章了),再加上我們溝通不良,交往三年多,到最近我才
知道他是個會默默忍耐的人...反之,我則是個毫不保留、表達情緒的獅子,自以為他也
是這樣的人。
目前,我都沒再去打擾他了,但我有件行李還在他房間,勢必還得回去拿,見到他時,
我要怎麼做呢? 他會看信嗎? 還是這些反省在他眼裡都沒差了,所以直接把信扔了?
非常感謝大家的回覆,我現在心情舒暢多了~
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