該怎麼讓她恢復原狀... - 牡羊
By Edwina
at 2011-11-08T00:50
at 2011-11-08T00:50
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大家好 我是巨蟹男
就是傳說中跟牡羊個性互補 在一起不是大好就是大壞的星座
我跟羊女交往一年多
交往前 她是個有活力行動力又強的女孩
但是交往後 我逐漸知道了一些她的心事 我也幫忙解決了些問題
只是過沒多久我就發現她的依賴性變重了
那時的我覺得這是好事...
因為之前我曾因為她不依賴我而吃醋 (所以自己找來的因 現在自己要吞下這個果)
除了依賴性變重之外 還有自信心下降
我的做事風格就是現在我能做什麼就做什麼
而她則是需要擬定『必勝又想做』的計畫才會開始做那種
但往往都會導致事情拖太久 以至於錯失良機
這種個性不只我也有很多人勸她不要太執著 而原地踏步
她到後來很黏我 只要一有不順心如意的事就會往我這裡躲然後哭
我也就安慰安慰她 並給予一些建議 (後期我就是靜靜的聽她哭)
我也知道這是她相信我的表現 但...
一年多以來不斷地重複這樣的狀況 已經讓我有點疲憊甚至近乎崩潰
同居時期最為嚴重 後來說服她搬到學校宿舍還是會有這種狀況發生
不時就會往我這兒跑 然後重複上述情形
我甚至擔心她會不會把眼睛哭受傷...
剛剛我才把哭哭啼啼的她送回宿舍
請問版上的眾羊們 我該怎麼做對她最好...
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就是傳說中跟牡羊個性互補 在一起不是大好就是大壞的星座
我跟羊女交往一年多
交往前 她是個有活力行動力又強的女孩
但是交往後 我逐漸知道了一些她的心事 我也幫忙解決了些問題
只是過沒多久我就發現她的依賴性變重了
那時的我覺得這是好事...
因為之前我曾因為她不依賴我而吃醋 (所以自己找來的因 現在自己要吞下這個果)
除了依賴性變重之外 還有自信心下降
我的做事風格就是現在我能做什麼就做什麼
而她則是需要擬定『必勝又想做』的計畫才會開始做那種
但往往都會導致事情拖太久 以至於錯失良機
這種個性不只我也有很多人勸她不要太執著 而原地踏步
她到後來很黏我 只要一有不順心如意的事就會往我這裡躲然後哭
我也就安慰安慰她 並給予一些建議 (後期我就是靜靜的聽她哭)
我也知道這是她相信我的表現 但...
一年多以來不斷地重複這樣的狀況 已經讓我有點疲憊甚至近乎崩潰
同居時期最為嚴重 後來說服她搬到學校宿舍還是會有這種狀況發生
不時就會往我這兒跑 然後重複上述情形
我甚至擔心她會不會把眼睛哭受傷...
剛剛我才把哭哭啼啼的她送回宿舍
請問版上的眾羊們 我該怎麼做對她最好...
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