關於天秤 - 天秤

Lauren avatar
By Lauren
at 2011-09-29T05:09

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有時候我常在想,也許天秤座的人

在某些層面上,在光鮮亮麗的背後

事實上,卻帶著一份隱約的悲劇性色彩


許多人說天秤座的人很講究平衡

我想這點並沒有錯,至少在我身上是如此

但所謂的平衡,天秤座的表現卻往往和一般人固有的觀念並不相同

我們權衡的並非完全是自身的利益

更多的是在整個場面中,所應該扮演以及表露出來的角色

例如明明心裡是那樣憂傷,天秤卻可以露出燦爛的笑容

平衡著自己的情緒,試圖讓應該混亂的場面維持和平


又有些人說,天秤座的人喜歡交際應酬

但大多數我遇到的天秤,在真正需要幫忙的時候

拿起電話卻不知道應該要撥給誰

因為怕擾亂了對方的生活和作息


還有些人說,天秤座的人

女的像花蝴蝶一樣四處飛翔

男的則處處留情,享受著一場又一場的曖昧

然而,事實上,真的是如此嗎?

我不認為,因為我們不過是在找尋著一個可以打破平衡的的對象

請記住,被天秤座愛上的人很幸福,也很痛苦

因為假若天秤座的人認真把你看待成唯一的另一半

那將其一生,他都不會忘記你

他會永遠在心中為你保留一個位置

就算有一天,你傷透了他的心

他還是會站在原地等著,那怕你永遠不會回來

這對於許多人來說,會是相當沈重的包袱

當你知道有個人犧牲了青春和機會只為你等待著。


天秤很聰明,聰明得很傻

天秤很愛面子,愛面子到很難去說出真正的實話


最近不小心重新聽到了林宥嘉的「說謊」

忽然有些感慨

我們為了保持著良好的風度

一再地一再地吞下一千又一千根針

(引用:說謊的mv,說謊的人要吞一千根針)

我們試圖圓融的面對每一個接觸的人

卻被用「八面玲瓏」這樣不知是褒是貶的形容

我們總是對別人公平

對自己卻能如此殘忍


剛過完生日

忽然間,我覺得很累

累的再也不想用偽裝來面對這個世界


可惜,我做不到

可惜,我是標準的天秤

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All Comments

Xanthe avatar
By Xanthe
at 2011-09-29T11:45
默默點頭了
Sierra Rose avatar
By Sierra Rose
at 2011-09-29T14:09
推一個 天秤淚推
Delia avatar
By Delia
at 2011-10-01T15:41
推推推 把我心坎的話都說了出來
Enid avatar
By Enid
at 2011-10-03T04:05
寫得好~~
Edith avatar
By Edith
at 2011-10-06T18:40
淚推~~
Aaliyah avatar
By Aaliyah
at 2011-10-09T13:55
+1...真的是秤子的通病呢
Poppy avatar
By Poppy
at 2011-10-13T04:26
不要以為你寫的很準我就會推喔(默默點頭
Victoria avatar
By Victoria
at 2011-10-18T03:55
...淚推,都噴淚了><"
Enid avatar
By Enid
at 2011-10-19T21:36
忍不住多看了好幾次這篇根本精華阿!!!
Kristin avatar
By Kristin
at 2011-10-20T04:38
寫得好準...一定要推
Ophelia avatar
By Ophelia
at 2011-10-23T23:03
淚推+1
Zanna avatar
By Zanna
at 2011-10-28T13:17
終於有人懂了(眼角噙淚)
Emily avatar
By Emily
at 2011-10-29T16:13
淚推>"<
John avatar
By John
at 2011-10-31T05:31
天秤攻略寫的太多太仔細了!!
Ingrid avatar
By Ingrid
at 2011-11-02T09:15
我覺得自己是個怪咖~外加又是AB型~唉~~~~~
Mason avatar
By Mason
at 2011-11-07T02:16
超準~~~ 我都要哭了!!!
Elvira avatar
By Elvira
at 2011-11-07T20:17
太貼切了(飆淚)
Irma avatar
By Irma
at 2011-11-12T03:39
推...
Genevieve avatar
By Genevieve
at 2011-11-14T11:05
標準的天秤+1 哭哭
Olivia avatar
By Olivia
at 2011-11-14T16:31
哭了哭了~
Dorothy avatar
By Dorothy
at 2011-11-19T09:17
真貼切~
Erin avatar
By Erin
at 2011-11-23T15:23
太準了拉~((泣
Dora avatar
By Dora
at 2011-11-28T05:39
永遠留個位子+1 很有感觸
Skylar DavisLinda avatar
By Skylar DavisLinda
at 2011-11-28T21:51
妳這樣掀我們底牌可以嗎? 寫到我都不想承認 >///<
Yuri avatar
By Yuri
at 2011-12-01T00:12
XDDDDD
Emma avatar
By Emma
at 2011-12-02T10:07
恩..
Frederic avatar
By Frederic
at 2011-12-03T16:52
淚推 果然只有天秤了解天秤QQ
Ula avatar
By Ula
at 2011-12-05T10:00
默默推 (擦淚
Queena avatar
By Queena
at 2011-12-06T08:26
不得不淚推這篇...什麼時候才能真正的表現出自己的哀
傷,而不是一邊滴血一邊替人分擔解憂...真的對自己太
Caroline avatar
By Caroline
at 2011-12-06T11:50
殘忍...>__< 我也覺得這樣的自己好累
Jacky avatar
By Jacky
at 2011-12-10T05:46
太寫實拉 累推
Joseph avatar
By Joseph
at 2011-12-14T12:13
被傷透了心,還是會在心中保留一個位置,傻傻等待...
寫到心坎裡~超推...
Elizabeth avatar
By Elizabeth
at 2011-12-15T12:56
淚推....很貼切
Hazel avatar
By Hazel
at 2011-12-20T05:52
大淚推!
Joseph avatar
By Joseph
at 2011-12-25T00:03
永遠留個位子+1
Megan avatar
By Megan
at 2011-12-29T19:04
好悲傷喔 推
Hardy avatar
By Hardy
at 2011-12-31T16:01
拿起電話真的不知道要撥給誰..... 哀
Ophelia avatar
By Ophelia
at 2012-01-03T21:59
推~淚推= =!!
Sarah avatar
By Sarah
at 2012-01-05T04:29
留位子 但是會跟別人交往吧
Anthony avatar
By Anthony
at 2012-01-10T03:50
我好像一直在做掀自己底牌的事情==
Edith avatar
By Edith
at 2012-01-11T06:03
很貼切…
Rebecca avatar
By Rebecca
at 2012-01-11T13:10
淚推...受傷卻還是等待著...
Michael avatar
By Michael
at 2012-01-15T09:12
淚了:(
William avatar
By William
at 2012-01-19T05:53
矛盾的淚推~~~
Ingrid avatar
By Ingrid
at 2012-01-23T02:53
太貼切...淚推
Genevieve avatar
By Genevieve
at 2012-01-26T02:34
說謊和搞笑堪稱二首標準天秤之歌阿
Quintina avatar
By Quintina
at 2012-01-29T09:57
淚推~
Carolina Franco avatar
By Carolina Franco
at 2012-01-30T21:48
推阿~心裡憂傷仍能燦笑~
Una avatar
By Una
at 2012-02-03T06:56
淚推啊...完全講到心坎裡
Quintina avatar
By Quintina
at 2012-02-07T04:19
淚推
Olivia avatar
By Olivia
at 2012-02-07T07:28
默許~形容的真是貼切阿!
Selena avatar
By Selena
at 2012-02-08T05:30
淚推QQ
Isla avatar
By Isla
at 2012-02-11T07:00
雖然妳一直掀...可是還是有很多不懂我們的人...XD
Wallis avatar
By Wallis
at 2012-02-15T23:03
淚推QoQ
Damian avatar
By Damian
at 2012-02-19T20:03
淚推
Liam avatar
By Liam
at 2012-02-23T08:30
淚推 拿起電話真的不知道要撥給誰 這是真的XD
Wallis avatar
By Wallis
at 2012-02-26T16:25
淚推啊!
David avatar
By David
at 2012-03-01T06:22
淚推+1 真的是寫進心坎裡..
Sandy avatar
By Sandy
at 2012-03-04T09:49
天秤的"怕打擾對方"會讓我生氣欸
想說我明明就可以幫你阿!!但是天秤卻不願求救ˊˋ
Donna avatar
By Donna
at 2012-03-09T09:41
K大 我朋友也氣過我這個!!說我那是自以為是的認知
Donna avatar
By Donna
at 2012-03-13T20:21
她們總是再等待我求救 但我總是倔強著不開口..
Belly avatar
By Belly
at 2012-03-15T02:20
我也是被這麼罵過 "妳可以講阿!"然後我媽基當場大哭
覺得我為什麼都不找她幫忙 所以看來大家真的都遇過
Connor avatar
By Connor
at 2012-03-16T05:34
可是就是開不了口嘛,總是會有很多顧忌:(
Skylar DavisLinda avatar
By Skylar DavisLinda
at 2012-03-16T20:31
就是生氣會有顧忌阿>"<會覺得天秤是不是覺得我幫不上
或是根本不把我當自己人 這種感覺ˊˋ
Isla avatar
By Isla
at 2012-03-21T18:46
淚推~真正需要幫忙的時候不知道找誰阿!
Belly avatar
By Belly
at 2012-03-22T03:43
淚推~好貼切喔!!
Elvira avatar
By Elvira
at 2012-03-26T11:25
哭哭了!!!!借轉FB
Suhail Hany avatar
By Suhail Hany
at 2012-03-30T10:56
試圖圓融的根本就是錯的
Belly avatar
By Belly
at 2012-04-02T00:22
對,怕打擾到對方的作息而作罷!!!
Elvira avatar
By Elvira
at 2012-04-02T05:21
我也想哭了= =可是我希望天秤可以讓別人有機會懂。
Linda avatar
By Linda
at 2012-04-06T22:57
推一個.....有一點不太一樣,我會向人請求幫忙..只是
沒有人懂我的意思...最後只好靠自己...
William avatar
By William
at 2012-04-08T06:04
但也有的時候是不想麻煩到人....哈哈哈= =
Dora avatar
By Dora
at 2012-04-09T18:03
講到心坎裡去了...T.T
Dora avatar
By Dora
at 2012-04-11T20:07
淚推+1...
Faithe avatar
By Faithe
at 2012-04-16T10:55
只能推了
Enid avatar
By Enid
at 2012-04-19T07:53
淚推....真天平
Emily avatar
By Emily
at 2012-04-20T15:25
只能給推了~
Jake avatar
By Jake
at 2012-04-23T22:21
同意樓上..此文怎可不推..
Frederic avatar
By Frederic
at 2012-04-26T12:55
淚推+1....
Poppy avatar
By Poppy
at 2012-05-01T09:16
淚推,將其一生都不會忘記...
John avatar
By John
at 2012-05-05T08:25
感同身受
Jack avatar
By Jack
at 2012-05-06T22:04
寫得太貼切了!完全認同那種平衡的感受!!
Mary avatar
By Mary
at 2012-05-10T02:46
真的會變沈重的包袱阿... 呵
Adele avatar
By Adele
at 2012-05-13T07:39
寫到我心坎裡
Ula avatar
By Ula
at 2012-05-16T20:13
中肯好文!!!!!!!
Annie avatar
By Annie
at 2012-05-17T00:21
推....
Mason avatar
By Mason
at 2012-05-19T06:16
淚推+1...
Noah avatar
By Noah
at 2012-05-22T00:29
淚推 怕打擾別人..
Mason avatar
By Mason
at 2012-05-24T05:17
好文!!
Blanche avatar
By Blanche
at 2012-05-26T14:27
太貼切了
George avatar
By George
at 2012-05-26T23:51
push
Gilbert avatar
By Gilbert
at 2012-05-30T10:41
淚推呀~借轉FB!!感恩~
Dorothy avatar
By Dorothy
at 2012-05-31T19:30
我剛"失戀"了 希望不要一直在意著她T.T
Elma avatar
By Elma
at 2012-06-05T07:44
Erin avatar
By Erin
at 2012-06-07T16:09
真的很貼切 完完全全講中了
Connor avatar
By Connor
at 2012-06-10T20:22
真的很準
Heather avatar
By Heather
at 2012-06-12T05:22
Delia avatar
By Delia
at 2012-06-16T00:56
淚推...明明在大哭了~最多也就傳個簡訊給朋友 嘲諷自
Emily avatar
By Emily
at 2012-06-19T18:26
己...淚糊的看不清了~還是要打出"哈哈~沒事啦,忽然
Edward Lewis avatar
By Edward Lewis
at 2012-06-23T23:56
這樣想到而已~" 唉~該死的逞強
Sarah avatar
By Sarah
at 2012-06-28T06:41
淚推,只可惜這篇文沒法讓大多不了解天枰的人看見
Ethan avatar
By Ethan
at 2012-06-30T20:26
推一個 Q___Q
Bethany avatar
By Bethany
at 2012-07-01T01:45
真的是該死的逞強...唉
Megan avatar
By Megan
at 2012-07-05T02:04
天秤淚推~~~~~~~~~~
Queena avatar
By Queena
at 2012-07-07T20:56
借轉感謝
Emily avatar
By Emily
at 2012-07-09T17:25
讚...寫出我們過日子的縮影..
Agnes avatar
By Agnes
at 2012-07-11T14:22
標準的天秤子~總是懶得說全部,但是心中有別人滿滿看
Rae avatar
By Rae
at 2012-07-14T20:08
不見的驚嘆!!!
Zenobia avatar
By Zenobia
at 2012-07-16T18:45
大推阿!!!要爆淚了!!!
Kelly avatar
By Kelly
at 2012-07-18T07:41
真是含淚推..
Selena avatar
By Selena
at 2012-07-18T15:39
Kelly avatar
By Kelly
at 2012-07-22T15:02
推~
Ina avatar
By Ina
at 2012-07-25T12:48
好準Q_Q!
Dora avatar
By Dora
at 2012-07-27T03:51
哀~不得不推阿...
Madame avatar
By Madame
at 2012-07-30T12:10
Una avatar
By Una
at 2012-08-04T07:43
只能默默淚推了
Bethany avatar
By Bethany
at 2012-08-06T10:13
ㄟ 你真的跟我超像的耶...........
Catherine avatar
By Catherine
at 2012-08-08T05:10
真的!!!
Jake avatar
By Jake
at 2012-08-08T08:01
字字戳心窩呀~~~~
Daph Bay avatar
By Daph Bay
at 2012-08-12T21:38
借我收藏...
謝謝~
Olivia avatar
By Olivia
at 2012-08-14T13:38
天秤喜歡麻煩自己遠大於麻煩別人
Necoo avatar
By Necoo
at 2012-08-15T14:45
永遠都保留一個位置.. 推了一 一
Ethan avatar
By Ethan
at 2012-08-19T16:23
大推~借轉!謝謝
Odelette avatar
By Odelette
at 2012-08-20T00:17
這不推不行了啊!!!!!
Quintina avatar
By Quintina
at 2012-08-23T03:01
看了好難過~卻也開心!
Oscar avatar
By Oscar
at 2012-08-26T14:32
把心聲都說出來了!! 感觸很深!!!
Jessica avatar
By Jessica
at 2012-08-28T21:42
我也喜歡浦澤直樹 :)
Xanthe avatar
By Xanthe
at 2012-08-30T07:33
寫進心坎裡 淚 ...
Queena avatar
By Queena
at 2012-09-03T06:19
我超愛浦澤植樹
Jacob avatar
By Jacob
at 2012-09-03T11:26
Ethan avatar
By Ethan
at 2012-09-06T06:07
他每部長篇, 貫穿古今時空的大作我都愛不釋手 :)
Joseph avatar
By Joseph
at 2012-09-09T10:04
淚推~
Hardy avatar
By Hardy
at 2012-09-11T10:53
淚推~真的不知道要找誰+1
Dinah avatar
By Dinah
at 2012-09-15T14:48
大推 借轉~
Andrew avatar
By Andrew
at 2012-09-16T16:39
大推!!!
Genevieve avatar
By Genevieve
at 2012-09-21T06:00
寫的真好
Margaret avatar
By Margaret
at 2012-09-24T04:03
永遠保留一個位子 真的是寫得太棒了
Connor avatar
By Connor
at 2012-09-24T09:22
不能同意你更多了~~~
William avatar
By William
at 2012-09-25T05:28
真的~都說出來了!!
Agatha avatar
By Agatha
at 2012-09-28T11:01
推~光鮮亮麗的背後帶著一份隱約的悲劇性色彩!
Skylar Davis avatar
By Skylar Davis
at 2012-10-01T23:45
嗚~說得讓我太感動了!
Edward Lewis avatar
By Edward Lewis
at 2012-10-05T15:43
永遠的把自己都擺在最後一位...疲憊不堪卻又擺脫不了
Mary avatar
By Mary
at 2012-10-07T20:06
淚推
Irma avatar
By Irma
at 2012-10-08T23:37
淚推~~~我心中也還有一個好大的位子
Daniel avatar
By Daniel
at 2012-10-09T12:10
推~

今天換我生日囉~~~~ ^^

Megan avatar
By Megan
at 2011-09-29T00:11
=======================此心情抒發專為天秤寶寶設置====================== 今日想抒發的心情是: 喜/怒/哀/樂 心情背景: 開心 ^^ 希望跟板友分享的是: 今天終於換我生日囉~~~~ 所以在今天之前發生的壞事我全部都要忘光光 也希望跟我同天生日的人在 ...

到底他們這樣做的意思?

Puput avatar
By Puput
at 2011-09-29T00:00
我是個小小小學生 :)
大家都說我是萬人迷 ...
因為男生每次經過都會叫我綽號或是打我
而且只有我 ..
有個天秤男
每次遇到也是叫我的綽號 . ...

這樣的感情該怎麼挽救和繼續下去?!

Brianna avatar
By Brianna
at 2011-09-29T00:00
破題即說
之前我屬於劈腿的狀況,雖然之後懂得浪子回頭
當然我也明白有許多事情是發生了就再也回不去了
珍惜我女友對我的原諒,我也在努�� ...

處女座愛上天秤座

Mary avatar
By Mary
at 2011-09-29T00:00
我是處女座O型女生~我那位天秤座B型男生大我10歲~~
跟他認識快一年了~平常我們是朋友..工作時我是他的私人助理~~
以下是我跟他的相處模式~很長~� ...

My 23 birthday

Annie avatar
By Annie
at 2011-09-28T20:46
今日想抒發的心情是: 看似平靜但內心很激動。 心情背景:今天是我熱鬧的小宇宙,每分鐘都覺得自己特別。 會這麼熱愛秋天,最大的原因也正因為我們都是秋天的寶寶,秋天的魅力! 好像才剛在這裡發過22歲的生日心情文,一下子卻又長了尾巴。 三個願望,永遠都會有一個是希望自己能在這看似長,卻短暫的一年時間裡, ...