隱私權跟情人,你會選哪一個? - 天蠍
By Megan
at 2011-10-14T17:31
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昨天我跟魔男在一起滿三個月了
他是個標準的大男人,控制慾超強
因為是桃園台南遠距離(我在桃園念書他在台南工作)
他無時無刻都懷疑我是不是偷吃
我不准看別的男生、不准在學校裡穿短褲、不准化妝跟戴耳環
就在昨天他說他要我的FB帳號密碼
我說這是我的隱私權,誰都不能侵犯
他就說"你不給我就當作妳偷吃"
最後跟他盧了好久...
他只問了最後一句"隱私權跟我,妳選哪一個?不給,就到此為止!"
其實也不是有秘密或瞞著他什麼
平常我都可以接受他那些無理的要求跟懷疑
但這次,我卻為了捍衛我的隱私權決定跟他分手
想請問大家,如果是妳/你
會怎麼抉擇?
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推 ivioletia:勇敢一點,分手吧!! 10/14 17:33
→ tsukasa22:何不問他"媽媽跟妳掉下水救誰" 這種不選擇就分手 10/14 17:33
→ tsukasa22:的對象 以後只會一直威脅妳 10/14 17:34
→ tsukasa22:分手或尊重我 選一個 不選就分手 大家都來問呀 10/14 17:34
推 mikelen:不管對什麼星座的人,尊重對方的底限是基本的...我會分手 10/14 17:35
→ vinita:= =你還要跟這種人在一起? 10/14 17:43
推 domin:分阿 價值觀不同 10/14 17:44
→ vinita:不懂的尊重的人,也不懂得愛!他只是想控制而已 10/14 17:44
推 aaronamor:摩不管男女都有這傾向 看你可不可以接受阿 要你分也難吧 10/14 17:46
推 mikelen:難怪十年前的我也有一點這樣@@" (上升魔羯,太陽天蠍...囧) 10/14 17:49
推 kouyakushi:「不給,就到此為止!」好啊,再見,什麼東西! 10/14 17:55
推 scorpionju:分手。 10/14 17:55
→ flycatcher:分了啊......這也太扯 10/14 17:58
推 catan:二話不說,分!!!他以為他是誰~~感覺很像跟踨狂!! 10/14 18:05
推 yaobj:沒有了自我,還想要幸福? = =||| 10/14 18:11
→ puda:你是煞到他哪一點阿= = 10/14 18:13
→ yj771122:他其實對我很好,只是真的佔有慾太強了 10/14 18:16
→ kouyakushi:這已經不是佔有慾了,完全歇斯底里了 10/14 18:17
→ kouyakushi:什麼叫做「你不給我就當作妳偷吃」?小鬼鬧情緒嗎? 10/14 18:18
推 yaobj:對控制狂最好的方法~~~就是反過來控制他...要來硬的... 10/14 18:19
→ yaobj:你做不到就分手!!!就這麼簡單~~不給他就偷吃啊?那沙灘走一圈 10/14 18:20
推 yaobj:那不就要簽終身賣身契給他?= =||| 別傻了~孩子@@ 10/14 18:26
推 cosco:分手! 這種人是潛在家暴加害者 = = 10/14 18:43
→ reyaprincess:雖然有點幼稚 但這很難選耶 10/14 18:52
推 IrenePisces:請快逃... 10/14 18:58
推 otto23:分手 這個有危險情人的感覺 10/14 19:12
推 OyAlbert:推分,這跟星座無關也不叫占有慾,這叫潛在危險 10/14 19:41
→ nocloud1113:想清楚吧,就算是大男人也要懂得尊重 10/14 19:46
推 thereisacat:我覺得他未來很有機會變成危險情人…早分早好。 10/14 19:50
推 knightkid:再見不聯絡 10/14 20:01
推 yannjen:分手 10/14 20:18
推 barbarqq:他應該戀愛經驗不多吧!很像初戀男會做的事!! 10/14 20:21
推 mike0809446:推樓上 但這種事情經過溝通還沒改善 那就分手吧 10/14 20:30
→ mike0809446:趁著傷害還沒擴大 10/14 20:30
→ yj771122:的確不多~他上一次戀愛是高中的事了!(今年23) 10/14 20:33
→ chari7586:以前OR初戀會選情人 現在選隱私 10/14 20:43
推 v00001:還不逃? 10/14 21:18
推 sealin:分手 10/14 21:19
→ v00001:這種根本就不叫做選擇題,叫做是非題,勇敢地對他畫個叉吧 10/14 21:20
推 pigergirl:如果是我,我會把帳密給他耶!@@ 我覺得完全沒差>"< 10/14 21:30
推 catan:樓上,帳密的問題不大,問題是他提出這些要求的心態!!! 10/14 21:32
推 yangda98:分手...連這簡單的空間都不給妳..繼續跟他在一起只會更喘 10/14 21:52
→ yangda98:不過氣~ 10/14 21:52
推 MichaelKiske:溝通無效就分阿…這種很明顯的問題不用問了好嗎… 10/14 21:57
→ vinita:潛在家暴者+1 10/14 22:17
推 wwsweet:誇張 10/14 22:41
推 v00001:我很好奇會有蠍子把帳密交出去的嗎? 對我來說完全不可能... 10/14 22:46
噓 COCOSEL:Last friend 10/14 22:54
推 yurihou:就到此為止吧 10/14 22:55
→ COCOSEL:他以為自己多了不起?蠍子有個性的好嗎? 10/14 22:56
推 COCOSEL:補高調! 10/14 22:58
→ debbie2:我魔羯前男友也是這樣,非常慶幸分手 10/14 23:00
→ debbie2:當時每天都懷疑出軌,半個鐘頭內打20通電話查勤,至今難忘 10/14 23:02
→ COCOSEL:XD 10/14 23:02
推 odonba:隱私最高 10/14 23:26
→ fenglingling:這還需要考慮歐 10/14 23:28
推 therock0809:我想問 有蠍女會跟另一半要臉書或MSN密碼嗎 10/14 23:35
推 azbycxdwevfu:到了神經病的地步 這種人有啥好考慮 10/14 23:36
推 bluishdream:這種事情是要心甘情願做的,講出那句話就很糟! 10/15 00:11
推 nadian:要隱私.. 10/15 00:32
推 yolandals:要知道對方密碼不是問題 但這個人心態絕對有問題 10/15 00:54
推 jingl: 分!!!!!!!!!! 10/15 01:15
→ clenout:這個人的心情絕對有問題~~~ 10/15 01:16
→ clenout:身為蠍子的我.....不可能!!!!! 10/15 01:17
推 freshnil:分手 10/15 01:31
→ freshnil:現在都這樣了,以後會發生什麼還不知道 10/15 01:32
推 yufy:最基本的信任跟尊重都沒有了 以後還有什麼好談???? 10/15 02:14
推 iori23041114:她很沒有安全感,極度想控制你,很不健康的愛,改天 10/15 04:40
→ iori23041114:可能就說,把你錢給我,不然你去外面就容易偷吃,如 10/15 04:40
→ iori23041114:果他對你不好,你也不可能感到困擾,現在猶豫不決了 10/15 04:41
→ iori23041114:重點不是給帳密的問題,而是他不尊重你,你重視這方 10/15 04:42
→ iori23041114:面的隱私,就算板上的人都說,給啊!你也給了,但你 10/15 04:43
→ iori23041114:也不會感到自在,你一定會耿耿於懷,長久的相處,一 10/15 04:44
→ iori23041114:定會有更多踩線的事件發生,是問,你想要這樣繼續下 10/15 04:45
推 berniechen:分手 10/15 04:46
→ iori23041114:去嗎?其實也滿多人是帳密共享的,但對你來說都不重 10/15 04:46
→ iori23041114:要,重點是你願不願意!!但他的選擇題感覺好幼稚! 10/15 04:48
→ moonpisces:我會分手...因為他不懂得什麼叫做尊重... 10/15 06:50
→ moonpisces:今天要fb 改天要銀行帳密...這種事 是無止盡的 10/15 06:52
→ yj771122:昨天試著再跟他溝通了~FB目前已解決,但他現在要我把MSN 10/15 07:40
→ yj771122:裡前男友的帳號刪掉!以前的東西一律不許留...唉 10/15 07:41
推 FADE:又是個用分手當威脅的 現在分手都可以這麼輕易提出來的嗎... 10/15 09:21
推 fenglingling:不是分手了 怎麼又解決了 10/15 09:59
推 yiyi5411:分手 這樣懷疑我我無法接受 10/15 10:36
推 iori23041114:說過了,相似的事情會一再發生,還是換湯不換藥阿! 10/15 12:24
→ delusion117:蠍子吃軟不吃硬的壓~如果他連這都不董~那該結束了!! 10/15 13:18
推 leelan:完全是態度問題 !!! 10/15 13:20
推 MusicShow:好可怕....分手吧!!要懂得保護自己啊啊啊啊啊! 10/15 14:53
推 minepchome:快分!現在不給帳密是偷吃~以後隨傳沒隨到就是滔天大罪 10/15 20:03
→ lambo:應該是蠍子要做這種事吧!!! 怎麼反過來了!!!! 10/15 21:21
→ lambo:他可以完全掌握你 你也要完全掌握他才對等啊!!! 10/15 21:22
推 oligo:難道他不知道隱私是蠍子的最後防線嗎?! 建議妳跟他分了吧.. 10/16 12:40
→ pretending:拿這種威脅分手...一整個感冒 10/16 17:37
→ chigusa:好無聊+幼稚的人 10/17 01:49
→ jog123321:女人最笨的地方就是相信男人會改 10/17 10:07
推 fpgial:原po一點天蠍的氣勢都沒有...完全弱掉了啊... 10/17 16:56
推 picachui:我覺得給我比較好 10/17 22:59
推 owenkuo:妳是對的! 10/18 09:50
→ XXPLUS:妳用fb帳號跟他換提款卡帳號,應該就值得了 10/18 16:24
推 MPLeo:原來這種人也有人要..好幼稚的傢伙.繼續在一起.淚的是妳自己 10/19 14:00
推 Bleir:只能說:分分分分分分!!! 10/20 12:15
推 darkred:不管你怎麼做,他都會覺得你在偷吃~可怕 10/20 21:29
→ nicktop2001:天蠍應該是攻擊型的吧?怎會被逼到如此地步?該反擊了~ 11/01 00:25
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