魚男愛藏心事 - 雙魚
By Zenobia
at 2010-04-20T13:39
at 2010-04-20T13:39
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原PO一起加油吧 >"<
我家的魚魚也是最近壓力很大 (工作跟未來吧)
所以最近很少主動打電話過來,也常常找不到人 (躲起來了 QQ)
放我一個人在那邊演深宮怨婦 = =
我自己是這樣調適的啦
1. 給他空間,不要過問太多
我大致上就是問問他"今天過的如何阿" " 機車主管是不是又更年期 "
大致上探探他的口風啦,如果他想講他就會接下去
不想講,他會直接忽略妳的問題 = =
這時候我就會講些我自己發生的新鮮事(大約5-10分),問問他要休息嗎
假如他覺得累了,我就會爽快的跟他說晚安~
2. 過自己的生活,讓他休息
我家的魚很喜歡自己一個人遊來游去,做些自己喜歡的事情。
你就不要埋怨他為什麼有空去書店、打球、發呆、找朋友喝酒...等,
卻沒有空陪你吃吃飯、講講話。
他在用它的方式紓壓,而且我想有一半是他不想給你添麻煩吧。
3. 他起伏不定,你就要更穩定 (溫柔堅定)
他忽冷忽熱,你就越是要讓他知道你在這裡陪他,他可以到你懷裡休息。
不一定要真的抱抱啦,就是一種心靈上的扶持。
像我家魚魚那天悶悶的說 "工作好煩喔"
我就很熱血的回應 " 沒關係,姐姐養你 >//////< "
只是他總是潑我冷水說 " 你養不起啦 " ---> 那就不要吃這麼貴的飼料嘛 >"<
4. 把握適當時機明白告訴他,請不要忽略你
我通常都是可憐兮兮的問他 " 你又消失跑去哪,找不到人好擔心耶 "
" 你知道我一個人在房間上演很多集的深宮怨婦嗎 "
趁他道歉有點罪惡感的時候再補
" 那你去哪的時候說一下嘛,我又不會吵你 >"< "
" 好嘛好嘛~~讓人家陪你度過啦~兩個人比較不孤單 "
不過我還是要說,你這隻愛躲起來的冰塊魚!!!
你還是要沒事出來給我摸摸頭!!! 給我充電一下啦!!!!
明天是我生日~
要跟魚魚去吃飯~~
好久好久沒有跟這隻冰塊魚一起吃飯了!!!!
希望我們都一起度過這段難熬的日子 (自己的工作壓力也是很大)
Fight~~~
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