與雙女價值觀不太相同 【求問】 - 雙子

By Mary
at 2014-09-21T03:07
at 2014-09-21T03:07
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大家好,先謝謝大家願意點進來看文章
我與雙女在一起約略5個月
現在面臨的最大問題是
我們價值觀好像不太相同...
她小我三歲
我目前正在工作
她還是學生
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價值觀不同之一:
出去買東西或吃飯
我都會請老闆加飯(會先問加飯要不要錢)
或挑菜(可選菜的便當)
今天去九份玩 買了芋園
招牌寫的是芋圓 + 紅豆 40
+ 綠豆 40
+ 大紅豆 40
+ 綜合 40
我問了老闆說能不能只要芋圓就好(我不喜歡豆豆)
老闆好像臭臉(雙女事後跟我說的)後就說 可以啊 40元
她覺得我不必要買東西還要跟人家要求加加減減
因為之前買便當之類的經驗
她覺得這樣很煩
可是我就覺得很怪... 這不是客人的權益嗎?
而且也沒誇張到像奧客....
不知道是我奇怪還是我真的這樣很讓人無言
然後她就不開心了一整天
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價值觀不同之二:
因為本身自己很節儉,也不是什麼有錢人
所以還蠻注重錢的事情
也有跟她說過
愛情跟麵包 一定是先有麵包才有愛情
她覺得錢沒那麼重要(跟上面的問題應該有連動性)
要買就買 不要給人家帶來那麼多麻煩
但我就覺得如果能用相同的東西買到較便宜的
何樂而不為?
我不知道是不是跟生活背景有關
但是我真的沒辦法揮霍...
出去吃飯多數時候也都是我付錢
所以同樣也會覺得
為什麼妳要幫老闆講話 或站在老闆的立場對我不爽...
我不知道該怎麼辦
因為她跟我說
「那就算了
就繼續這樣吧
妳在意妳在意的 我在意我在意的」
可是我覺得這根本就不是相處之道
不知道該怎麼辦
我的節儉是從小養成....
自己也沒有覺得這樣子不好...
所以我們這樣...
就真的沒辦法了嗎?
很想讓感情繼續 特地上來求各位雙子大大解..
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