螃蟹的無情,瞬間變永遠 - 巨蟹

By Rae
at 2010-08-26T13:03
at 2010-08-26T13:03
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如果你不是我的誰,為什麼我要浪費時間關心你的一切?
就算你是我的誰,那也得看我把你擺在什麼位置。
很殘忍的心態,不要懷疑,巨蟹座就是用這種方式安插你在她心中的地位。
這篇的直言會比上一篇的「自私」更強,SO在自私這一篇就想把我吊起來打的人,
請好好考慮清楚是不是要往下按。
為什麼我要用那兩句開場白?
只因為那是我內心最實際的想法。
當巨蟹座看到一個陌生人的時候,第一眼的感覺會影響他往後和你的互動。
你對我笑,我就對你笑;你擺個臉給我,我也不會客氣的回應。
但是,不要以為笑容可以當作「我們可以當好朋友喔」的象徵,
歹勢,除非你有一張讓我看了會心花怒放的俊臉,最好是把我電到想當場把你打暈帶走
不然有95%的機率,我是用「官方模式」在跟你回應。
螃蟹不隨便跟人家交惡,在我們確定你不會危害自己之前,多半都選擇和平共處。
但要是相處過後發現你這人不值得繼續交陪,那麼你也不用想說要扭轉螃蟹的印象。
至少短時間之內,你是被巨蟹座判出局的。
有很多板友最喜歡問的兩個問題:
1.螃蟹這樣表示喜歡我嗎?
2.為什麼螃蟹會這麼絕情or我好像很難靠近他?
第一個問題板上已經有太多攻略了,這邊就不再贅言,有興趣的請自己去翻。
第二個問題才是我想PO文的重點,看似溫和的螃蟹,往往在你預期之外翻臉,
而且非常快速。
這又得牽扯到你跟螃蟹交往的深度了,交情越深,越無情。
假設今天是你想主動接近螃蟹,但努力了好一陣子,總覺得好像沒辦法靠近她的內心
那就表示她一直都在發揮「無情」的行為模式來應付你
無情,是阻斷感情的最好方式,不喜歡你,就別想我會真心回應
我們可以跟你哈拉,笑的開心,然後也狀似關心的問起你的情況,
就像是認識很久的朋友那樣
但,別會錯意了,當話題一結束,在螃蟹轉身的瞬間,
笑容就會馬上收起來,彷彿沒這件事一樣
這就是我在文章開始前想表達的:
如果你不是我的誰,為什麼我要浪費時間關心你的一切?
夠狠吧?明明好像挺熱絡的,但其實她壓根不把你放在心上
你的一切,只夠她在聊天的當下儲存腦內。等到兩人一分開,我管你手抽筋還是腳扭到
關我屁事
偏偏,個性使然,螃蟹就是有辦法裝出一張頗為擔憂的臉,
來證明自己「我是關心你的」的表象
但如果你們的互動僅只於單方面,而且螃蟹可以隨心所欲的選擇愛理不理的話
那麼這就是她的答案,見面三分情,相遇時面子我做給你,其他時間就免了。
事實上,她真的關心你嗎?你很重要嗎?沒有的話,就請自己離開,恕不奉陪。
但這種無情,遠不及深交之後決裂的無情,那才叫做真正的地獄。
付出了感情,消磨了時間,卻換來兩人背道而馳,
這種局面對巨蟹座來說,絕絕對對是地雷中的地雷。
尤其是愛情,不要以為兩人分手了還可以當朋友,
這種鳥事發生的機率大概跟中頭彩一樣
不是沒有,但很少,大部分都是老死不相往來居多。
假設,在巨蟹座「完全」不想復合的情況下,
不管你們過去有多甜蜜,一旦分手,巨蟹座就是恩斷義絕
你未必是仇人,但我這輩子就是不想見到你,請你有多遠滾多遠,不要再出現我眼前。
我們不會復仇,因為沒種,但那並不代表我們不會詛咒你,當然詛咒的威力也很小……
(怎麼一整個沒用化了──好啦詛咒是開玩笑的,我們這麼善良是吧~)
但其實我想說的就是,過去的人,就是過去,不可能出現在當下,更別奢望是未來
每看到你一次,螃蟹就會想起過去的事情一次,而且多半是她腦中「不爽」的那部份
越想就會越氣,越氣就會越無情
如我上一篇所說,我都已經付出了感情,竟然換來這種結果,NO!
在這種情緒下,巨蟹座很難跟前男女朋友保持良好關係,
板友所說的「在乎上一任」而放不開,是因為螃蟹自己不想捨棄這段感情
真正捨棄掉過去感情的巨蟹座,會把你當作是比灰塵還微渺,
至少我就是一定這麼做的人。
不管你有多麼想要挽回,巨蟹座一旦堅定了信念,你就永遠改變不了。
深情可以很久,絕情卻可以在一瞬間。
只要我們下定決心,就沒有第二條路能讓你選了。
若你事後想復合,只會讓螃蟹更不滿:現在才知道我的好?那你當初就不該跟我分開!
為了讓自己看似有骨氣,以及告誡自己不能再犯同樣的錯,巨蟹座就會更堅決的拒絕
順便再繼續催眠自己:不跟你復合,就是報復的最好方式!誰叫你要這樣對我!
你可以說我無情,因為對我來說,你真的一點都不重要。
你的位置由我決定,是靠近中心點,還是範圍邊緣,由不得你。
所以,就算因為這樣你跟我疏遠了,有差嗎?
反正你又不是我的誰,我就沒必要浪費時間關心你的一切了。
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