10/17 The Daily Horoscope - 牡羊

Aries horoscope for Oct, 17, 2014

Someone is talking and you are listening. Or at least you think you are listening. You are taking your time and being patient and you are hearing the words. There's another kind of language going on, though, that you may be missing. With a friend's or a relative's recent disclosure or expression of emotion, you need to look deeper. The words may not tell the whole story. Try to understand this person's body language, the look in their eyes, and the things that are not being said. If you figure it out,
you'll help this person immensely, and you will also help yourself.


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你很認真地聆聽著某人對你的傾述，
至少自以為很認真。
你很有耐心的，花了很多時間，
仔細的把每個字都聽清楚了。
不過其實還有另外一種語言，
可能被忽略了。

某個朋友或親戚最近對你展露了一些私事，或者情緒上的宣泄，
你需要更深入地去了解。
運用的字眼並沒有把整個情況都展現出來，
試著去了解這個人的肢體語言、
他／她的眼神、
還有其他沒有說出來的細節。

如果可以把背後隱藏的情緒都搞清楚了，
不但能真正的幫助到這個人，
你也等於幫了自己一個忙。


譯註：

羊羊其實直覺超強的，類似動物的本能？
所以既然都靜下心來聽對方述說了，
何不把感官全開，
感受一下對方說不出口的



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Life is about forgetting the answers and enjoying the questions.
-Paulo Coelho

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